I am filipina and married to an english man, I came here to UK as a fiancé visa then got married here!
Soon I will be applying for my ILR on June 01,2013, cuz my flr visa will be expired on july 01,2013!
So the problem is my husband doesn't want to sponsor me because of nonsense reason!

My relationship with my husband is just like a rollercoaster ride and it depends on his mood! Ive learned to deal with it cuz I do love him so much! few months of our marriage I was in a terrible depression bec of how he treats me, he easily get mad, angry and irritited, and i never had a clue that he was like that! so I asked his family about him! they said they dont really know him bec he's a very quiet and secretive person , all they know is he is a mad person! but when i see his good side he is really good and nice person its just he got very bad temper and no patience at all! so I really want to know about my husband how to deal with him, so when i got the chance to talk to his 2nd ex wife,( by the way I'm his 3rd wife ) so she told me everything about him how really bad he was when he was with her, he treated her worse than he's treating me now, she said lots bad things about him! so i shared my experience with my husbad to her also and i trusted her and i thought that she was helping me along the way so i know how to deal with my husband! she even made me promise not to tell my husband that i alked to her but i told her that eventually 1 day i will tell my husband that i talked to her and she told me no no do not tell him that we talked she said he will get mad and angry! so i said ok! but honest to God I will tell my husband that i talked to her but in a right time!
So then I did not know that she was talking to my husband and she told him that we talked and the thing is she twisted the story she made it out that she was concern about my husband bec I was talking about him behind his back! and running him down! so to make the long story short she used my convo to get hold of my husband and later on i found out that she wanted to go back with him she said to my husband that get rid of me and she will go back with him!

So my husband confronted me about it! I told him everything and he did not liked it and he believed in her not in me,he treated me as a stranger and called me different bad names! but i did not gave up and still showing him and proving him that i was telling the truth! so after few months he calm down and back to normal, he was sweet and nice person again! but he always looking a flaws in me from the tip of my hair down to the tip of my toes!
I am a health care worker and I only do 32 hours a week! so i dont earn that much but alteast im lucky to have a job! he never gives me any single cents and i share half for all the bills and rent so i always share 80% of my wages to the bills and rent so its just a liitel that will left for me monthly he is earning much more than me though, and he told me all the bills gone up already and i still sharing the amount that i share since i start working!,so when i give him my reason he doesnt like it he wont accept any reasoning at all, he always degrading me and putting me down, but i just dont take noticed that anymore! bec i know his attitude already! and everytime we are having a fight and argument he always telling me that I will not sponsor you i will not a help you for ur ILR ! I want you to go back to the philippines.

Now that he knows Im going to apply for my ILR he told me we are done we are finish I will not sponsor you! i want you out of my life! and I asked him what did i do ? thats unfair he said talking his ex wife behind his back and me being annoying! annoying in a terms of i keep justifying and giving him my reason that he dont wanna accept!

So i dont know what will I do now!?