Limbowoman, I am so sorry to learn about the appalling way in which you have been treated. You cannot be happy with this man and he will not change the way he is behaving, it will get worse. Please save yourself, you only have one life and should not put yourself at further risk and waste it on this undeserving person who clearly has mental problems .......... ! It appears from what you have said that you may have financial difficulties maintaining yourself here in UK and if I was in this position, I would seriously consider taking the next flight back to Philippines