
Originally Posted by
Trefor
Sorry to hear all this. What person acts like this and then calls themselves a man? It makes me embarrassed to be a man.
I strongly suggest you separate your finances right away. Make sure you salary goes into your own account and that he does not have access. Also check for any credit cards in your name he may have access to, and any other paperwork you need to keep safe - especially your passport etc. Lodge them all with a friend if necessary. Find somewhere else to stay and get out of the situation you are in. Then start thinking about next-steps.
Where are you located in the country? Do you have your own friends/friend network to call on if things get messy?
Best of luck to you.