Worried

[bhem_bhem]

exactly 8 weeks today when my son went to vfs Cebu. I'm a bit worried coz my son is losing hope. He told me that he doesn't want to come here anymore coz he's had enough of waiting for the visa. When he submitted his visa he was dead excited and now that its taking a bit long, he's losing interest. He thinks they will refuse his application. He said 'oh well, it's cold there anyway and I don't have friends in there'.

Before I came here last 2008, I promised that ill bring him here asap but things didn't go the way I plan it. It took me 4 years to keep my promise. It's breaking my heart that he's giving up.

[shandylove]

exactly 8 weeks today when my son went to vfs Cebu. I'm a bit worried coz my son is losing hope. He told me that he doesn't want to come here anymore coz he's had enough of waiting for the visa. When he submitted his vis
a he was dead excited and now that its taking a bit long, he's losing interest. He thinks they will refuse his application. He said 'oh well, it's cold there anyway and I don't have friends in there'.

Before I came here last 2008, I promised that ill bring him here asap but things didn't go the way I plan it. It took me 4 years to keep my promise. It's breaking my heart that he's giving up.

Ohh dear.. When i read ur post got a teary eyed as well coz i know for being a mom its so hard to heard that words from our kids..
Who knows Maybe soon or with in this month bhem u got his visa just keep praying and try to convince him again if he has a visa already.

[bhem_bhem]

Ohh dear.. When i read ur post got a teary eyed as well coz i know for being a mom its so hard to heard that words from our kids..
Who knows Maybe soon or with in this month bhem u got his visa just keep praying and try to convince him again if he has a visa already.

i'm in pieces.

my husband is freaking out coz he thinks i'll leave him. i told him before that i'll go home in Phils if my son refuses to come and live here or the ukba won't let him come here.

[han]

I hope everything will be fine bhem...

[bhem_bhem]

I hope everything will be fine bhem...

thnx han,, i really hope things will be fine.

[joebloggs]

you'll get your son here one day, no matter what, its just when,,
did your son attend an interview ?
what reasons do you think they 'could' refuse him for ?

[bhem_bhem]

you'll get your son here one day, no matter what, its just when,,
did your son attend an interview ?
what reasons do you think they 'could' refuse him for ?

no,, they didn't interview him..

prob coz of sole responsibility.. hope we won't have to wait for another month, my son is too young to get stress.

[joebloggs]

no,, they didn't interview him..

prob coz of sole responsibility.. hope we won't have to wait for another month, my son is too young to get stress.

sorry cant remember how old is he?, worse comes to the worse and he is refused you can appeal and if that fails or is it possible you can go back to the phils for say upto 6 months live with your son and apply again, then it will be difficult to refuse you if you applied again. but thats the last resort,
what visa do you have bhem_bhem ??

[bhem_bhem]

sorry cant remember how old is he?, worse comes to the worse and he is refused you can appeal and if that fails or is it possible you can go back to the phils for say upto 6 months live with your son and apply again, then it will be difficult to refuse you if you applied again. but thats the last resort,
what visa do you have bhem_bhem ??

he's only 7 yr old.. hope i don't have to do that..

it's spousal visa..

[Michael Parnham]

bhem_bhem, you stay here, at least you will be able to afford to see your son whenever you want, besides he may well get his visa yet. Good luck!

[bhem_bhem]

bhem_bhem, you stay here, at least you will be able to afford to see your son whenever you want, besides he may well get his visa yet. Good luck!

thnx micheal,, fingers crossed my son will change his mind once he has his visa.

[stevie c]

Dont lose hope bhem i have two friends who put there apps for settlement nearly at the same time & they have both been waiting 8 weeks now so dont give up hope

[bhem_bhem]

Dont lose hope bhem i have two friends who put there apps for settlement nearly at the same time & they have both been waiting 8 weeks now so dont give up hope

thnx stevie,, hope it won't be long now..

[stevie c]

Im sure it wont be bhem so think positive

[bhem_bhem]

Im sure it wont be bhem so think positive

thnx..