Damned GOOD POINTS, Lordna - especially the one about there being a partner at home to look after young children - which is how it
was with my first [late] wife
throughout OUR two kids' schooldays. As had been the case with my mum - and (dare I say?)
MOST caring, sensible mothers - when my brother and I were growing up in the 1950s. Indeed, mine only decided to go
out to work again (for the first time since marrying my dad in 1941) AFTER
I, myself, got married in 1967 ... and that, I still remember her telling me, was MAINLY to escape the boredom
of being stuck in the house alone all day.
However, I wouldn't just vent your

on the Tories

when,
in reality, it's more a "sign of the times" ... aided and abetted, of course, by successive Administrations (Conservative
AND Labour alike)
hell~bent on repeatedly
dangling "carrots" to encourage married women to combine a full time job with raising offspring - instead of providing proper incentives that would enable them to concentrate wholly on their familial roles.

...
therein lies the root of the problem!