thanks ,i was only going by what i read on the set m visa guide lines ,and i thought i had to ask her that question for piece of mind,but we certainly did not ask to be spoken to and treated like crap.
it also stated that they would keep my wife and daughters passport on the notification letter for the appointment with the visa checking service ,remember i asked you a while back ,with regards to what you put on the form about having made a claim for tax credits and child tax creds ,well i took your advice and we put a foot note down regarding to what you told me ,and when she was reading this she was smirking and raising the eye brow and even managed a sniger .i think shes not fit to deal with public services ,these people are supposed to be neutral and professional it wasn't much of a worry until we were humiliated for an hour by this woman .