My youngest sister left for Perth 7 years and still there. Had they not put all there eggs in one basket, they would thrown the towel in and come back. .so no choice, they've had to make it work. If they had there time again they would of gone in there twenties not forties.

Good post Ian. .Some people, me included do need saving from themselves. .we go through life learning how to cope what life throws at us and just when we've thought 'I've cracked it' we're too bloody old to anything about it .