While it's good to have a new member who voices their opinion and speaks their mind, I think you've jumped the gun on this one.
Speaking from experience, one can do their utmost best for their partner and receive abuse and hostility in return. And myself and gwap aren't the only ones.
You could be the most perfect loving caring individual on the face of the earth but there will always be people out there who will hate you for it. That's the way life goes unfortunately.
Interesting avatar btw.