Good point Marco.
Only 2 years ago my work colleague and friend, 35 years old and a really lovely guy, drove his car into a tree not too far from where I live. It burst into flames and even if he'd survived the impact, he was burned beyond recognition.
He'd been having lots of problems getting proper access to his young son, and it was clearly causing him an enormous amount of mental anguish.
His death came as a great shock to me personally, and of course to all his other friends and workmates. Very very upsetting for all concerned, and now that sweet little child who he so worshipped is without a father.
It pains me to think about it now. If only we'd spoken on the phone that evening, or gone out for a drink TOGETHER.