Quote Originally Posted by gWaPito View Post
This still all so difficult for me. I love my boys with all my being ..I see so much of Jane in them both so I can't bring myself to dislike Jane like i did because the boys are Jane. .I hope this is making sense to somebody. .It isn't to me ...even after all the hurt inflicted on me I can't feel hatred.

When James sings his Twinkle twinkle little star I hear Jane's voice coming through as well.

How do some divorced separated people hate each other so much yet would give their lives for the children they brought into this world who are essentially the waring parents.
It's beyond me ....you would of thought if both loved their children as much as they do, they would make a way to make thinks right whatever either have done. ..We don't suffer the children! !.....Unfortunately this takes 2 to make this happen.
Fully understand what your saying Gwaps its that sort of thing when you look at the boys you see her in them but not that hatred of her but the joy of the two little miracles that were born from you both.

That link will always be there and to hate only destroys any happiness that these two little guys deserve.

They are a real credit to you and I only hope things can be amicable in the future for you both.

BTW those pics lol your little boys look like twins absolutely adorable.

All the best buddy for the future your friend Mark...