My wife wants me to leave our home.

[tiger31]

Good advice, in my opinion I think many men fall 'in love' over the internet, maybe they're falling 'in love' with the idea same applies to women of a different culture filipino or not, they fall 'in love' with the idea of living in a western country and are therefore blinkered in some respects to the person they're falling 'in love' with.
Tiger's advise of spending time in each others country for a period of time is excellent, then each of you would know if you're in love with the person or the idea. At the end of the day, what's 6 months out of your life when you're planning on spending the rest of it together

very true I think that the ones who go over for a say a 3 week holiday meet someone then bring them back are more likely to split than those who actually live in their partners country for a while to get to know that person first .This is exactly what I did but not everyone can afford to do that so its a risk i,m just lucky that I was able to live here for comin up for 3 years so I can safely say I know how she ticks lol and she knows how I tick ( dominate ) hahaha jokin .now ive done the first part now ive got to bring her back at some stage and see how she ticks in the u.k .

[gWaPito]

very true I think that the ones who go over for a say a 3 week holiday meet someone then bring them back are more likely to split than those who actually live in their partners country for a while to get to know that person first .This is exactly what I did but not everyone can afford to do that so its a risk i,m just lucky that I was able to live here for comin up for 3 years so I can safely say I know how she ticks lol and she knows how I tick ( dominate ) hahaha jokin .now ive done the first part now ive got to bring her back at some stage and see how she ticks in the u.k .

Brief responses sorry, back at work. ..you've done it the right way Brian. ..but, like you said, most can't take 3 years out. ...when you think about, if I had done the same, it would of saved me a whole heap of grief.