Mark, sent u pm take care mate...Originally Posted by gWaPito
Mark, sent u pm take care mate...
The bf called me up last night to warn me away. WTF!!! I didnt know she had a bf...She told me he means nothing to her which is right coz she's been wd me 5 out of the 8 weeks she's been banging him!!! We spent a night together for goodness sakes....now I get text from her this evening after being with her for an hour in the afternoon saying that she loves her bf and that we are finished so 'I got to stop hurting myself'
Get this..she's flashing an old sympathy pic of a bruised mush to all and sundry..Her bf told me I beat her black and blue...absolute rubbish!!...I wonder if she told them she put me in hospital with a gouged eye in 2010.. I doubt itMy daughter has the pics for that episode. I would never stoop as low as that
That's a ridiculous thing for her to say - and by text, too - well, I mean ...... I've come across people who've said, "it was
at first sight" ... but to me, it's being unrealistic. Sexual attraction=lust, would seem more likely, IMO!
Mate, I'm truly sorry your hopes of a possible reconciliation have been (rather callously) dashed, I really am.
Thanks for the layed laid correction ArthurThat's a ridiculous thing for her to say - and by text, too - well, I mean ...
Mate, I'm truly sorry your hopes of a possible reconciliation have been (rather callously) dashed, I really am....it was typed in the heat.
I tried Arthur...I so wanted to make things right.
Yes, you're more than likely to be right there as well..getting hoed like she's never been hoed before. Happy days ha
Best I go to bed
Once you have crossed that line there is no going back, I have walked in your shoes and until you have been there done that no one realizes the hurt you feel for the rest of your life.
Move on my friend, your new life awaits
Yes, I was destroyed by a woman 18 months ago - but time heals, it really does
Frankly, I am astounded at your attitude.
By your own admission, you raised your hand to your wife and are now trying to blame the breakdown of your marriage on "social networking".
Do you really know what effect your violence on her had?
Shame on you
I agree, it is really hard for months or years but once you have moved on, that's the best feeling ever.
Does time for a woman really heal the emotional pain of being struck by a man?Yes, I was destroyed by a woman 18 months ago - but time heals, it really does
What a ridiculous comment. Ignore it mate.Frankly, I am astounded at your attitude.
By your own admission, you raised your hand to your wife and are now trying to blame the breakdown of your marriage on "social networking".
Do you really know what effect your violence on her had?
Shame on you
From what I've read above--it would seem your ex is just a user. Get yourself checked out for STD.
That's acceptable though is itI wonder if she told them she put me in hospital with a gouged eye in 2010
Yes, you should never hit a woman and at least Gwapito has had the balls to admit that to all on here - a very brave thing to do knowing he could be hammered on here for admitting it.
He is first to admit he is wrong, but give the guy some sympathy - his ex is playing a game, and if she was so badly beaten she would hardly be having coffees with Gwapito and more!
My thoughts exactly. There is nothing in this world that any woman could do to me that would even make me consider hitting her. Any man who hits a woman is nothing short of a coward, and a total disgrace to other men. There is NO excuse for doing it.Frankly, I am astounded at your attitude.
By your own admission, you raised your hand to your wife and are now trying to blame the breakdown of your marriage on "social networking".
Do you really know what effect your violence on her had?
Shame on you
Obviously there was a lot of anger in the household in the first place to get to that situation, unless you are really stupid and just walked up and hit her for no reason. So by simple logic, it could not have been a truly 'loving' relationship.
I bet after that, the poor girl lived in fear of you during arguments in case you hit her again.
You made your own bed Gwap, so live with it, but don't go looking for sympathy on here based on lies.
I hate people who hit women, and if a few more people agree with me, then you will be banned. I do not want people who assault women on this forum, especially an idiot who has spent the last few months trying to get pity out of people on here, but without telling the truth.
Keith - Administrator
I agree with that,
Honestly even if I am a woman, I do not trust some women's credibility especially when they say that they are being abused. Lots of women take advantage of the law.
We have a law here in the Philipines RA9262 Violence Against Women and their children and under that law, if your girlfriend/wife/partner complained you, they will detain you and there are lots of women who do those just to make a scene, or sometimes money. It happened to my eldest brother, he spoilt his ex live in partner and she accused him of raping her (tho they already have a kid) and we found out that she just want to make 'AREGLO" like we will just pay her for not pursuing the case and at the same time she had an affair with someone else.
And every time I see those kind of stuff on TV eg. Deniece Cornejo case, Katrina Halili case, Kris Aquino giving interviews to different network stations because she said she was abused and the Nicole from that Lance Corporal Daniel Smith case, makes me dislike Gabriella party list for spoiling those liars (sorry if I am offending some women here)
I am a woman, and sometimes I am the abusive to my partner especially if I know that he won't leave me no matter what (not to my fiance though)
But gents, I do not go in favour hitting women too as I always witness my father do that to my mom when I was a kid, but nowadays, women are very brave and will really make someone bad in front of the people.
I hate people who hit women, and if a few more people agree with me, then you will be banned. I o not want people who assault women on this forum, especially a idiot who has spent the last few months trying to get pity out of people on here, but without telling the truth.
I've had to read that several times. I won't comment at this stage--as I'm now going out all day. Let's see what the post brings.
Remember, no one on here has the true story. Most posts from Gwap were based on lies, so many of you have been led a merry dance over the months. Think about that carefully, some of you are making judgements based on lies by someone who has only just admitted one bit of truth of this sad story.
Keith - Administrator
I need to get in on this one, I totally agree that a man should never strike a woman nor a woman a man - it's totally unacceptable on both occasions.My thoughts exactly. There is nothing in this world that any woman could do to me that would even make me consider hitting her. Any man who hits another woman is nothing short of a coward, and a total disgrace to other men. There is NO excuse do doing it.
Obviously their was a lot of anger in the household in the first place to get to that situation, unless you are really stupid and just walked up and hit her for no reason. So by simple logic, it could not have been a truly 'loving' relationship.
I bet after that, the poor girl lived I fear of you during arguments in case you hit her again.
You made your own bed Gwap, so live with it.
I hate people who hit women, and if a few more people agree with me, then you will be banned. I o not want people who assault women on this forum, especially a idiot who has spent the last few months trying to get pity out of people on here, but without telling the truth.
Like has been said, abuse has been on both sides and it looks like in a very volatile relationship.
I cannot see why Mark should be banned at this time as he has now at least admitted he struck Jane and undoubtedly is now making himself open from attack on this forum and many will say he deserves to reap the seeds he has sown.
Once again I stress that under no circumstances do I condone physical violence but also this is a forum of sometimes debatable issues and sometimes things like this are personal to ourselves and undoubtedly cause personal thoughts to come into play.....
Really difficult situation now!
Firstly, this is a forum where we come for advice, sometimes moral support, and sometimes just to have a rant. When it comes to moral support, it's always going to be a biased view of the overall situation that we get, but in this case I think we now have a pretty honest picture of what happened even though it's been drip fed over the last year or so.
Sorry Mark, but I can never condone striking a woman no matter what the circumstances. Restraining in self defence I could accept, but again not knowing the full story of the exact circumstances I suggest you learn some self control in both you physical reactions and maybe your posting actions.
As for the consequences of your actions as far as this forum is concerned, I think you contribute a lot and would be missed............hence the moral dilema
A friend of mine whom was married to a Filipino mountain woman came home from work one day in the UK and had the TV chucked at him whilst still plugged in!! (not flat screen)
One day, she picked him up and chucked him down the hallway staircase..
They lived in a maisonette on the third floor..One day I was round there and watched the cat panic and jump out the open living room window!! How can cats do that and live?
Every interior door had been kicked and punched in..
Never a dull moment in that home!!
Restraint?? I didn't see her show any!!
Personally I don't blame her showing the pictures of her bruised face.
Perhaps that is the reason you have suddenly decided to tell the truth?
Well--reading between the lines there appears to be some history between Gwap and the site owner--that I know nothing about. But to call a member a liar and an idiot is strong stuff--and it will be interesting to read Gwap's response.
As for couples fighting---well---don't we all? Verbal bullying and abuse is just as bad as physical.
.That's acceptable though is it
Yes, you should never hit a woman and at least Gwapito has had the balls to admit that to all on here - a very brave thing to do knowing he could be hammered on here for admitting it.
He is first to admit he is wrong, but give the guy some sympathy - his ex is playing a game, and if she was so badly beaten she would hardly be having coffees with Gwapito and more!
a very brave thing to do~~~~was he brave hitting his wife?
He is a coward and a bully in my eyes
To quote the site owner:
Personal Attacks
"Resorting to personal attacks on this forum can result in your account being suspended.
You will first be issued with a warning, and failure to comply will result in further action.
Once you resort to a personal attack, in the eyes of the forum members on here, you have lost the argument, and credibility."
Of course not, that's silly - I never implied that.a very brave thing to do~~~~was he brave hitting his wife?
What I meant was not many people would have admitted what they did
He is a blatant liar, the truth is in this thread. He led a lot of members here a merry dance by not being truthful, and has only now decided to say a small inkling of the truth due to the release of a photo showing the damage his violent assault caused. Only idiots hit women, not real men, just cowards. FACTS not a personal attack.
No. I certainly don't fight, verbally or physically.
I also know a lot about abused people, both male and female. I have worked with some in the past, known quite a few in relationships, and my sister was also physically and mentally abused. Once a violence happens in a relationship, then the recipient then suffers from mental abuse, as they never know if they will be hit again, so they spend their time walking on egg shells.
I can't understand why people are backing someone who admits causing physical harm to a woman. There is no reason, excuse or defense. It is also unlawful.
Keith - Administrator
Can't argue with that!
He is a blatant liar, the truth is in this thread. He led a lot of members here a merry dance by not being truthful, and has only now decided to say a small inkling of the truth due to the release of a photo showing the damage his violent assault caused. Only idiots hit women, not real men, just cowards. FACTS not a personal attack.
No. I certainly don't fight, verbally or physically.
I also know a lot about abused people, both male and female. I have worked with some in the past, known quite a few in relationships, and my sister was also physically and mentally abused. Once a violence happens in a relationship, then the recipient then suffers from mental abuse, as they never know if they will be hit again, so they spend their time walking on egg shells.
I can't understand why people are backing someone who admits causing physical harm to a woman. There is no reason, excuse or defense. It is also unlawful.
Hi Gwap, I honestly cannot defend your actions. It was a despicable, cowardly thing to do to a defenceless woman.
I have always had respect for you but I think respect now goes out of the window
Sorry mate, but I have to agree that this is unforgivable. I also understand the pain of having to live with this for years to come, but you reap what you sow
AN HAPPY WIFE IS A HAPPY LIFE
I can't understand why people are backing someone who admits causing physical harm to a woman. There is no reason, excuse or defense. It is also unlawful.
That cuts both ways. Back in the 70's--I was what is now called a battered husband.
During 13 years of marriage to a high-control religious maniac---I had furniture thrown at me-- a 10" blade kitchen knife thrust at me--I dodged it--it ended up stuck in the door-----and my nose smashed by a punch in the face while I was fast asleep in bed. But--as usual--I kept shtoom--no one else knew about it.
I can't understand why people are backing someone who admits causing physical harm to a woman. There is no reason, excuse or defense. It is also unlawful
Well--Gwap has been on here many years--and obviously has a number of fans --?-----me included.
So--to call him a blatant liar--?? can you cite an example?
Two sides to everything, and I think we all knew there was more to this story than was told from the start.
But - and its a big BUT - until anyone here has been in the persons shoes who hits out you cannot comment.
I cannot condone him for his actions. I was there once and believe me, you live it every day. Do I regret it? Yes, the funny thing is everyone who knew my story says they understood, but I cannot understand why I did not just walk out the door.
Just like Mark, after what had happened to me, I was alone trying to start again but my ex was round just like a bee round a honey pot.
Lies. Well, we all say some untruths sometimes. Its down to each other to believe or just dont say nothing.
You are right, no one should ever hit another person, but it does happen. Does that make me a bad person, a coward?
NO IT DOES NOT, I MADE A MISTAKE, AND AGAIN I LIVE WITH THAT FROM DAY TO DAY.
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