Would you think, meeting him once and meeting him in just for how many months will be enough -------

---to get married?---and you move half way round the world? not for me to comment----but the heartache misery confusion waiting for a visa decision will be insignificant compared to what your future could bring.

but still--if youre still determined to get into this country--theres lots of threads in this forum to answer all your questions. read on !!