I'm looking for love

[stevewool]

have you tried dating sites on the internet , that may be a good place to start

[hawk]

i found my wife on a dating site called tagged its all free no money you sign up like facebook then you put in where your looking and ie philippines age easy as 123 as i said its free you talk to them free they talk to you free messaging then you move onto skype good luck

[SimonH]

ESA is also the abbreviation for the European Space Agency.

Essex Space Agency

[Steve.r]

if both mine live until 92 I would be retiring age anyway.I hope I'm old enough and sane enough to make my own mind up by then

Are you really still their little soldier and at your age still not allowed to make up your own mind about YOUR life???? I think about time you 'grew some' as Jeremy Kyle would say...... otherwise you are just wasting your life and we only get one chance!!!

what and marry a blackwoman?

You do realise that you are thinking about dating an Asian woman right? They come in all colours from white to black..... is this another of your parent's influences about race and colour ??

What's wrong with marrying a Black woman ?

Nothing Graham, in fact I love my wife when she is darker. I know you will agree with me on that.

Nothing I guess

I guess?????? Guess what???

[bigmac]

ESA will preclude getting a spouse/fiancee visa.

[Michael Parnham]

Got it Goldyhorn!

[goldyhorn1]

i have to say this---a british guy trying to live on ESA and dreaming of 1: winning the lottery---and 2: going to the philipines---or any other non--EEA country---to find a future partner---is simply on a hiding to nothing.

better to look a lot closer to home for a future partner--one who fully understands the implications of a life on benefits.

Thanks I will look closer to home but is there anything wrong with having a holiday or moving to the Philippines on my own if I don't find a partner?

[goldyhorn1]

I have tried a site called Plenty of Fish P.O.F.com

[goldyhorn1]

no not really but I think it's possible to date or meet either african or asian women or any other in the uk

[goldyhorn1]

thanks for that bigmac but I have not met one yet and maybe I never will. Hooray for being single and free

[Ako Si Jamie]

I have tried a site called Plenty of Fish P.O.F.com

Take that site with a pinch of salt.

[bigmac]

thanks for that bigmac

i'm only trying to point out the harsh reality---just to spare you future heartache that some of us are going through.

plenty of fish is a useful site--i was on it--& thats how i met my girlfriend.

but--if you can find a philipina who is already settled here--you're home and dry.

[stevewool]

any site is ok just for talking give it a go but dont rush into anything before thinking about it

[grahamw48]

I think the Filipinas on POF tend to be a bit more 'fussy'.

Well done bigmac.

[bigmac]

I think the Filipinas on POF tend to be a bit more 'fussy'.

Well done bigmac.

my lady obviously has very good taste

[Arthur Little]

Look at this cheeky bugger.. There`s nothing wrong with him but I think he may have pulled!!

... pulled a muscle, more like!

[Arthur Little]

Thankyou Arthur will they appear differently?

... just means that - instead of the replies to each, appearing on two separate separate threads - they'll ALL now be in the ONE place. Makes them more accessible and, easier to follow if they're in order of sequence.

Also tidies things up a bit!

[goldyhorn1]

I had a look at tagged and joined. Thanks

[bigmarco]

Filipina Nightclub in Shepherds Bush you can always give that a try one night. Get your dancing shoes on and jump on the central line you never know your luck

[sars_notd_virus]

I'm 49 single and live in Essex .I'm looking for a Filipino woman.I don't have children ,I don't drive,I don't have pets. One dream I have is to move to the Philipinnes one day.A holiday there would be ok.I have decided not to visit any other country but at the present time I live on my own.As long as I do I will stay on my own I won't change my mind on the holiday destination or the move.I like snorkelling have done this a couple of times but not in Philippines.My parents are both alive at the moment and I feel I have to say this that at least one of them has a bad outlook on the Philippines although I have not.I may not here the last of it until there gone but this does not stop me dating if I meet (Mrs right)

Filipina women is not for ''everyone'' .. pinays are just like any british women except they are generally more attractive in a very asian way with better figures (unless you prefer the fuller woman) but it has been said before in this forum about meeting women, Why pinay ?... the cost is very prohibitive at the moment... not trying to put you off...just wondering why it defiantly needs to be fillipino ?...Good luck and by the way... we can be bitches also

[goldyhorn1]

Filipina women is not for ''everyone'' .. pinays are just like any british women except they are generally more attractive in a very asian way with better figures (unless you prefer the fuller woman) but it has been said before in this forum about meeting women, Why pinay ?... the cost is very prohibitive at the moment... not trying to put you off...just wondering why it defiantly needs to be fillipino ?...Good luck and by the way... we can be bitches also

Yes this was my original post but also on the same thread there is a post saying I'm looking for a woman and not stating where from.

[sars_notd_virus]

Yes this was my original post but also on the same thread there is a post saying I'm looking for a woman and not stating where from.

Cool thats correct u can actually live in Ph without marrying a filipina.. goodluck on your endeavours...you made a "fine" choice..
Btw, I rarely known a man who quickly change their mind as you do..you must be lost somewhere??