I need an advice but in private msg

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Can someone help?

In all honesty you'll need to divulge more than that.

The best solution is to post questions in the forum. That way you'll get a broad range of comments/opinions.

If you need help about something really important and personal, I wouldn't recommend asking the general public here.
Better to make appointment at your local Citizens Advice or free consultation with a legal advisor.

No offence intended. Just don't want you post to sit here without any acknowledgement.
Good luck