Results 1 to 30 of 47

Thread: vasectomy

Hybrid View

Previous Post Previous Post   Next Post Next Post
  1. #1
    Moderator Arthur Little's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2008
    Location
    City of Perth, Scotland
    Posts
    24,230
    Rep Power
    150
    As most regulars here know, I was widowed at the age of 47. Eventually, in my early 50s, I plucked up the courage to go out to 'Singles Nights' ... a brave new venture for someone whose last encounter with a dance floor (as a "free agent") had been nearly three decades earlier. Not unnaturally, my initial feelings were akin to those of an embarrassed teenager by the time the hotel receptionist led me through to the venue where that particular night's festivities were to take place.

    As it happened, my anxiety was soon quelled on being introduced to a couple of divorced guys ... Frank & Gordon who befriended me. And thus began an exciting new chapter in my life.

    Anyway, the three of us became almost inseparable most weekends - especially on Sunday evenings - when we would "go clubbing" to loads of other venues in towns and cities further afield ... usually conveyed by there by Frank, an off-duty taxicab owner.

    Now Frank was a chatty bloke (ask Les ... it's
    an "occupational hazard" with taxi drivers Les, but in my experience it's true!). Often, the topic of conversation would resort to discussions on men's issues during our journeys. And, on one such occasion, Frank revealed he'd had "the snip". Apparently Gordon had intended having it done also, but "chickened out" in advance.

    Alas Frank died very suddenly of a heart attack - standing upright still clutching the lawnmower while cutting his grass (nothing to do with his vasectomy, I hasten to add!) one Sunday afternoon in the Autumn of 2002 - a month shy of retirement ... though I still keep in touch with Gordon socially for the [very] occasional pub visit.


  2. #2
    Moderator Steve.r's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2009
    Location
    Bongabon
    Posts
    6,520
    Rep Power
    150
    No one heard of safe sex

    I don't think and have never considered a vasectomy after having children. I really don't see the reason for it, specially when there are alternatives to invasive surgery.
    If you want your dreams to come true ...... first you have to wake up


  3. #3
    Moderator Arthur Little's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2008
    Location
    City of Perth, Scotland
    Posts
    24,230
    Rep Power
    150
    Quote Originally Posted by Steve.r View Post

    I really don't see the reason for it, specially when there are alternatives to invasive surgery.
    , Steve ... NOR do I !


  4. #4
    Banned
    Join Date
    Jul 2007
    Location
    Southern England
    Posts
    5,102
    Rep Power
    0
    Quote Originally Posted by Steve.r View Post
    No one heard of safe sex

    I don't think and have never considered a vasectomy after having children. I really don't see the reason for it, specially when there are alternatives to invasive surgery.
    Totally agree. .my wife's idea of contraception is not at all. .saving a bundle on condoms, annoying frequent showers and such like...Once a week is enough, whether I need it or not.

    On the other hand, for the sake of a harmonious, enduring long loving relationship, I would absolutely NOT recommend this method of contraception.

    Cheers
    Mark


  5. #5
    Respected Member Michael Parnham's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2011
    Location
    Nottinghamshire
    Posts
    11,643
    Rep Power
    150
    Quote Originally Posted by Arthur Little View Post
    As most regulars here know, I was widowed at the age of 47. Eventually, in my early 50s, I plucked up the courage to go out to 'Singles Nights' ... a brave new venture for someone whose last encounter with a dance floor (as a "free agent") had been nearly three decades earlier. Not unnaturally, my initial feelings were akin to those of an embarrassed teenager by the time the hotel receptionist led me through to the venue where that particular night's festivities were to take place.

    As it happened, my anxiety was soon quelled on being introduced to a couple of divorced guys ... Frank & Gordon who befriended me. And thus began an exciting new chapter in my life.

    Anyway, the three of us became almost inseparable most weekends - especially on Sunday evenings - when we would "go clubbing" to loads of other venues in towns and cities further afield ... usually conveyed by there by Frank, an off-duty taxicab owner.

    Now Frank was a chatty bloke (ask Les ... it's
    an "occupational hazard" with taxi drivers Les, but in my experience it's true!). Often, the topic of conversation would resort to discussions on men's issues during our journeys. And, on one such occasion, Frank revealed he'd had "the snip". Apparently Gordon had intended having it done also, but "chickened out" in advance.

    Alas Frank died very suddenly of a heart attack - standing upright still clutching the lawnmower while cutting his grass (nothing to do with his vasectomy, I hasten to add!) one Sunday afternoon in the Autumn of 2002 - a month shy of retirement ... though I still keep in touch with Gordon socially for the [very] occasional pub visit.
    What an interesting story Arthur


  6. #6
    Trusted Member
    Join Date
    Jul 2005
    Location
    Pangasinan
    Posts
    25,634
    Rep Power
    150
    Quote Originally Posted by Michael Parnham View Post
    What an interesting story Arthur
    Yes, I enjoyed reading about Arthur and his mates clubbing.

    Bit of a dark horse it seems, our Arthur.


  7. #7
    Moderator Arthur Little's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2008
    Location
    City of Perth, Scotland
    Posts
    24,230
    Rep Power
    150
    Quote Originally Posted by grahamw48 View Post
    Yes, I enjoyed reading about Arthur and his mates clubbing.
    Thanks, Graham ... I'm glad you enjoyed "delving into" my "murky" past. Yes, those were the days!!! However, the emphasis here is on the word "were" ... because, much as I relished re~living my teenage years in my fifties [at the time] I certainly had my share of "ups and downs" romantically! What 'singleton' doesn't? (I'm not talking about this > side of things either, but rather, the emotional fallout!) e.g., at one stage, I even stupidly got engaged (for all of a fortnight! ) to a 41-yr-old when I was 53. Trouble was, her jealous nature impacted on her basic insecurities ... for instance, she repeatedly accused me of fancying some of her considerably younger friends. ... as IF!

    Anyhow ... I learned a few hard lessons - notably ... that good looks are purely superficial ... that what, in fact, really counts is a woman's inner beauty ... i.e., her personality.

    Thankfully, I'm once again in the fortunate position of being very happily married to a woman who ticks all the boxes that ANY man could wish for; therefore, there's no way I'd ever want to return to the lifestyle I've just described.


    Quote Originally Posted by grahamw View Post
    Bit of a dark horse it seems, our Arthur.
    Only temporarily ... well ... 17 years actually! Luckily for me, my "long~suffering" mum (who was still alive at the time) never knew the half of what her "wayward" elder son got up to during that interlude between his two marriages.


  8. #8
    Moderator Arthur Little's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2008
    Location
    City of Perth, Scotland
    Posts
    24,230
    Rep Power
    150
    Quote Originally Posted by Arthur Little View Post

    I even stupidly got engaged (for all of a fortnight! ) to a 41-yr-old when I was 53. Trouble was, her jealous nature impacted on her basic insecurities ... for instance, she repeatedly accused me of fancying some of her considerably younger friends. ... as IF!
    Heather, she was called. Now I KNOW the answer to the about the homosexual Highlander who ...

    ... preferred peat to heather!


  9. #9
    Moderator Arthur Little's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2008
    Location
    City of Perth, Scotland
    Posts
    24,230
    Rep Power
    150
    Quote Originally Posted by Michael Parnham View Post
    What an interesting story Arthur
    Thanks, Michael.

    I have never felt any "compelling urge" to undergo the procedure. And, of course, having since been diagnosed with diabetes, I no longer see the "point", in a manner of speaking.


  10. #10
    Trusted Member stevewool's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2010
    Location
    derbyshire
    Posts
    18,992
    Rep Power
    150
    Quote Originally Posted by Arthur Little View Post
    As most regulars here know, I was widowed at the age of 47. Eventually, in my early 50s, I plucked up the courage to go out to 'Singles Nights' ... a brave new venture for someone whose last encounter with a dance floor (as a "free agent") had been nearly three decades earlier. Not unnaturally, my initial feelings were akin to those of an embarrassed teenager by the time the hotel receptionist led me through to the venue where that particular night's festivities were to take place.

    As it happened, my anxiety was soon quelled on being introduced to a couple of divorced guys ... Frank & Gordon who befriended me. And thus began an exciting new chapter in my life.

    Anyway, the three of us became almost inseparable most weekends - especially on Sunday evenings - when we would "go clubbing" to loads of other venues in towns and cities further afield ... usually conveyed by there by Frank, an off-duty taxicab owner.

    Now Frank was a chatty bloke (ask Les ... it's
    an "occupational hazard" with taxi drivers Les, but in my experience it's true!). Often, the topic of conversation would resort to discussions on men's issues during our journeys. And, on one such occasion, Frank revealed he'd had "the snip". Apparently Gordon had intended having it done also, but "chickened out" in advance.

    Alas Frank died very suddenly of a heart attack - standing upright still clutching the lawnmower while cutting his grass (nothing to do with his vasectomy, I hasten to add!) one Sunday afternoon in the Autumn of 2002 - a month shy of retirement ... though I still keep in touch with Gordon socially for the [very] occasional pub visit.
    most people do not realize it is very frightning walking into a strange bar when you are alone , i dont like it too, all ways nice when you can see someone you know, a nice little snippit to your past Arthur, thankyou


  11. #11
    Moderator Steve.r's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2009
    Location
    Bongabon
    Posts
    6,520
    Rep Power
    150
    Quote Originally Posted by stevewool View Post
    a nice little snippit
    If you want your dreams to come true ...... first you have to wake up


Thread Information

Users Browsing this Thread

There are currently 1 users browsing this thread. (0 members and 1 guests)

Visitors found this page by searching for:

private vasectomy derbyshire

derby how many vasectomy has failed

lady doctor performing vasectomy

SEO Blog

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  

Filipino Forum : Philippine Forum