whos had it and did it HURT
whos had it and did it HURT
I think mine's already gummed up through lack of use...would it make a difference anyway ?
Originally Posted by grahamw48
I think mine's already gummed up through lack of use...would it make a difference anyway ?, thats funny
I need to have it done, but keep putting off....
A friend of mine booked a half day holiday from work to get it done.whos had it and did it HURT
He didn't come back for a good two weeks
I won't go into details.
He did say the procedure itself was pretty painless, but he got very badly bruised somehow and had some nasty after effects.
Doctor to Nurse:- "I said please remove his SPECTACLES"
there somehow seems to be my answerA friend of mine booked a half day holiday from work to get it done.
He didn't come back for a good two weeks
I won't go into details.
He did say the procedure itself was pretty painless, but he got very badly bruised somehow and had some nasty after effects.
Warning, off-topic post ahead...............
My brother had a vasectomy at a fairly early age based on his wife never wanting children.
They divorced within 2 years.
She married again and had 3 kids
My brother married again, but divorced soon after as his then wife wanted kids.
Very sad. Well for me since I lost my young brother way too early.
He was on his 4th marriage and never knew how to choose a good partner.
I miss him.
Sorry Steve, I digress.
There's a message somewhere
well at 55 nearly and with our plans i think its fair for me to think about it ,
it was Ems who mentioned it to me,
THATS IT TOO MUCH THINKING, i shall leave it
No problem, I had it done in the late sixties, it was performed by a student doctor (a young lady) under supervision. It only took 5mins, no pain at all!
My hubby said he will have vasectomy done after I give birth on our third child. Well, after all we dont have plans of divorcing each other. Although at times, we are like cats and dogs. lol.
Now that we have two kids, I'm going to gracefully retire from reproduction and get it done!
I chatted it through with my GP a couple of weeks ago. It's a simple procedure, but apparently I need to attend a counselling session first. That's booked for mid June.
But what surprised me is that once you've had it done, it can be 5 or 6 months before you're properly sterile. I assumed it was instant.
As most regulars here know, I was widowed at the age of 47. Eventually, in my early 50s, I plucked up the courage to go out to 'Singles Nights' ... a brave new venture for someone whose last encounter with a dance floor (as a "free agent") had been nearly three decades earlier.Not unnaturally, my initial feelings were akin to those of an embarrassed teenager by the time the hotel receptionist led me through to the venue where that particular night's festivities were to take place.
As it happened, my anxiety was soon quelled on being introduced to a couple of divorced guys ... Frank & Gordon who befriended me. And thus began an exciting new chapter in my life.
Anyway, the three of us became almost inseparable most weekends - especially on Sunday evenings - when we would "go clubbing"to loads of other venues in towns and cities further afield ... usually conveyed by there by Frank, an off-duty taxicab owner.
Now Frank was a chatty bloke(ask Les ... it's
an "occupational hazard" with taxi driversLes, but in my experience it's true!). Often, the topic of conversation would resort to discussions on men's issues during our journeys. And, on one such occasion, Frank revealed he'd had "the snip". Apparently Gordon had intended having it done also, but "chickened
out" in advance.
Alas Frank died very suddenly of a heart attack - standing upright still clutching the lawnmower while cutting his grass (nothing to do with his vasectomy, I hasten to add!) one Sunday afternoon in the Autumn of 2002 - a month shy of retirement ... though I still keep in touch with Gordon socially for the [very] occasional pub visit.
No one heard of safe sex
I don't think and have never considered a vasectomy after having children. I really don't see the reason for it, specially when there are alternatives to invasive surgery.
If you want your dreams to come true ...... first you have to wake up
, Steve ... NOR do I !
What an interesting story ArthurAs most regulars here know, I was widowed at the age of 47. Eventually, in my early 50s, I plucked up the courage to go out to 'Singles Nights' ... a brave new venture for someone whose last encounter with a dance floor (as a "free agent") had been nearly three decades earlier.
As it happened, my anxiety was soon quelled on being introduced to a couple of divorced guys ... Frank & Gordon who befriended me. And thus began an exciting new chapter in my life.
Anyway, the three of us became almost inseparable most weekends - especially on Sunday evenings - when we would "go clubbing"
Now Frank was a chatty bloke
an "occupational hazard" with taxi drivers
Alas Frank died very suddenly of a heart attack - standing upright still clutching the lawnmower while cutting his grass (nothing to do with his vasectomy, I hasten to add!) one Sunday afternoon in the Autumn of 2002 - a month shy of retirement ... though I still keep in touch with Gordon socially for the [very] occasional pub visit.
Yes, I enjoyed reading about Arthur and his mates clubbing.What an interesting story Arthur
Bit of a dark horse it seems, our Arthur.
Thanks, Michael.What an interesting story Arthur
I have never felt any "compelling urge" to undergo the procedure. And, of course,having since been diagnosed with diabetes, I no longer see the "point", in a manner of speaking.
most people do not realize it is very frightning walking into a strange bar when you are alone , i dont like it too, all ways nice when you can see someone you know, a nice little snippit to your past Arthur, thankyouAs most regulars here know, I was widowed at the age of 47. Eventually, in my early 50s, I plucked up the courage to go out to 'Singles Nights' ... a brave new venture for someone whose last encounter with a dance floor (as a "free agent") had been nearly three decades earlier.
As it happened, my anxiety was soon quelled on being introduced to a couple of divorced guys ... Frank & Gordon who befriended me. And thus began an exciting new chapter in my life.
Anyway, the three of us became almost inseparable most weekends - especially on Sunday evenings - when we would "go clubbing"
Now Frank was a chatty bloke
an "occupational hazard" with taxi drivers
Alas Frank died very suddenly of a heart attack - standing upright still clutching the lawnmower while cutting his grass (nothing to do with his vasectomy, I hasten to add!) one Sunday afternoon in the Autumn of 2002 - a month shy of retirement ... though I still keep in touch with Gordon socially for the [very] occasional pub visit.
If you want your dreams to come true ...... first you have to wake up
Good hay snippit
ive known a couple of guys who had the snip--to spare their wives the risk of further pregnancies. in both cases---the marriage subsequently failed---the guys remarried---only to find re-constructive surgery was not possible. make of that what you will.
i still fire live rounds.
like anything in life nothing is guranteed we all hope for nothing to happen, just like getting pregnant, but if it happened well you shall get on with it,
Thanks, Graham ... I'm glad you enjoyed "delving into" my "murky" past. Yes, those were the days!!!side of things either,
but rather, the emotional fallout!) e.g., at one stage, I even stupidly got engaged (for all of a fortnight!
some of her considerably younger friends.
... as IF!
Anyhow ... I learned a few hard lessons - notably ... that good looks are purely superficial ... that what, in fact, really counts is a woman's inner beauty ... i.e., her personality.
Thankfully, I'm once again in the fortunate position of being very happily married to a woman who ticks all the boxes that ANY man could wish for; therefore, there's no way I'd ever want to return to the lifestyle I've just described.
Only temporarily ... well ... 17 years actually!Bit of a dark horse it seems, our Arthur.Luckily for me, my "long~suffering" mum (who was still alive at the time) never knew the half of what her "wayward" elder son got up to during that interlude between his two marriages.
Just as I suspected.
It can be reversed Bigmac, even at my age, my GP in the UK told me but I would have to go private and would cost approx £3500!
Nowadays I think you can have some of your 'stuff' frozen before the Stanley knife comes out.
Totally agree. .my wife's idea of contraception is not at all. .saving a bundle on condoms, annoying frequent showers and such like...Once a week is enough, whether I need it or not.No one heard of safe sex
I don't think and have never considered a vasectomy after having children. I really don't see the reason for it, specially when there are alternatives to invasive surgery.
On the other hand, for the sake of a harmonious, enduring long loving relationship, I would absolutely NOT recommend this method of contraception.
Cheers
Mark
Nowadays I think you can have some of your 'stuff' frozen before the Stanley knife comes out.prior to the event.
Heather, she was called. Now I KNOW the answer to the
I even stupidly got engaged (for all of a fortnight!about the homosexual Highlander
who ...
... preferred peatto heather!
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