Quote Originally Posted by Terpe View Post
Well done Tiger for expressing your views and experience in an open and honest way

It's easy for me to see how day-to-day life in such a different country, environment and culture can become an issue.
Especially if managing with the food/diet becomes so difficult and irksome.

For those who have never lived in a different place I would back up what you've described Tiger, and say to anyone, forget what you imagine, think or believe; don't even consider a lock, stock & barrel move, without first spending enough time there to let the "new & fun bit" wear off.
Try to get under the skin of life in the Philippines as it really is.
In practical terms, if those little annoyancies, inconveniences and general BS start to really get to you, it'll only feel worse as time goes on unless you're able to make a very significant internal change.

It's good for folks to understand from someone who's been there, done it and got the T-shirt to realise that such a move can be hard enough without discovering half-way down the road that it was all a mistake, and then having to reverse the whole process.

Good man
thanks for the reply your right too many many people come here all excited etc etc but once reality sets in some people realise its not quite the life they were expecting thats why I think after nearly 3 years of living here i,m qualified to say what ive said and speak the truth .some will adapt and some won,t .Thats why I,m so glad I did,nt sell up everything lock stock and barrel now I can walk back into uk into my nice house all set up for the misus and let her see how my life was before I came here and she,s looking forward to the day it happens.I not saying i,ll never go back as we bought a little bungalow here so I guess we can split the year up ,but once she finds a job I think she,ll vote to stay in the uk she has a large family but she said they all have there own lives to live both her parents are dead so she reckons she,ll settle down in uk quite easily as long as she has me aaw bless her lol thank god she can,t get hold of a bolo in uk so easily haha