Hiya Cherrie if you start in the forum homepage itself you will see a list of categories look down to the category which is UK VISA/British Citizenship and go into that then look at the list of threads I believe its the 4th one down which says All New Guide How to apply for a spouse/partner visa then click on that, that will give you full details and requirements on the procedure.
Please if you have further questions feel free to post them here as we have a lot of very knowledgeable people who will be always glad to help and also a lot of success stories on our forum.
Yes that is my wife and our little boy.
Thankyou...