Hi guys, thanks for the reply. I completely know where you are coming from. However, I have dated my fair share of women over time, some long term, some short term, but never quite found 'the one'. This time, there is a connection, a big time connection where we just get on so well, have a laugh, are hugely respectful to each other, attracted to each other in many ways and there is just something I haven't felt before, its all a bit crazy! So I am thinking, go for it! (and usually I have a very sensible head). I would rather take the plunge and make a mistake I learn from, than always wonder what could have been... :-)

So if anyone has any Visa advice based on my initial post, that would be great. Thanks.