because i am here in england

[Moy]

why it seems the whole world is on my shoulder?? have i born to suffer??

[joebloggs]

whats up now ?
you've got beautiful kids and above ground what more do you want

[Moy]

whats up now ?
you've got beautiful kids and above ground what more do you want

if i write here joe woule be so long letter:(.. ill msg u instead

[Dedworth]

Chin up - there's always someone worse off than you

[Moy]

Chin up - there's always someone worse off than you

i did try but i think i am the worst ...as what u said..

[andy222]

There is always someone worse off than you Moy.

[Moy]

There is always someone worse off than you Moy.

i can only hope andy...i wish i could share what bothers me...
but thANKS FOR encouraging words

[Arthur Little]

...i wish i could share what bothers me...

... y'know, Ros ... there's an old saying:-"A problem shared is a problem halved! And I've found there is very often a great deal of truth in this simple maxim.

So ... if you feel it's something the *Mods can help you with, then don't hesitate to contact one of *us via a Private Message - which WILL, in turn, be treated with the utmost confidentiality.

but thANKS FOR encouraging words

That's OK. Here's some 'rep' to cheer you up meanwhile.

[Moy]

... y'know, Ros ... there's an old saying:-"A problem shared is a problem halved! And I've found there is very often a great deal of truth in this simple maxim.

So ... if you feel it's something the *Mods can help you with, then don't hesitate to contact one of *us via a Private Message - which WILL, in turn, be treated with the utmost confidentiality.



That's OK. Here's some 'rep' to cheer you up meanwhile.

thanks Arthur ..ever since you always cheering me up...things so hard at the moment even to write it all down wipes me out.. shoulder get weary..too..;(

[gWaPito]

... y'know, Ros ... there's an old saying:-"A problem shared is a problem halved! And I've found there is very often a great deal of truth in this simple maxim.

So ... if you feel it's something the *Mods can help you with, then don't hesitate to contact one of *us via a Private Message - which WILL, in turn, be treated with the utmost confidentiality.



That's OK. Here's some 'rep' to cheer you up meanwhile.

Certainly helped me getting it off my chest. I'd couple it with getting legal advice from your local citizens advice bureau. .ie A shoulder on here then the facts from CAB.
As for sharing with Mods and trusted members. .does that mean us mortals aren't worthy. .rubbish. ..she knows who she can trust on here.
In hindsight, I quite possibly blurted out too much. .still, it's done now
The difference here is its only you, not uncle Tom cobbley and all.

Btw. ..I like that. ..''trusted'' members treating stuff on here posted by fellow members with the upmost confidentiality.
Not digging at you Arthur. .far from it.

[andy222]

Best thing is to talk Moy dont try and solve things on your own.

[bigmarco]

Disregard the negative Moy and focus on all the positives in your life. I'm sure many of us on here have had our dark moments in life and felt weighed down with all the stresses that come with it.
Give yourself a little treat I'm sure you've earned it

[Moy]

Disregard the negative Moy and focus on all the positives in your life. I'm sure many of us on here have had our dark moments in life and felt weighed down with all the stresses that come with it.
Give yourself a little treat I'm sure you've earned it

all this time i did try to focus on postive but it seems this negative sides is stubborn..wont go...its follows me...i am normally a postive person but when it gets me it just get me down..:(...i laugh but inside am cryin:(

[gWaPito]

why it seems the whole world is on my shoulder?? have i born to suffer??

Yes, we are born to suffer. Makes us ''better'' people Moy. :-)

[imagine]

look out your window, see the sky,see the clouds,see the sun,
go outside feel the breeze, see the flowers the birds and the trees,

isn't it just so wonderful and so wonderful to be alive

[Moy]

look out your window, see the sky,see the clouds,see the sun,
go outside feel the breeze, see the flowers the birds and the trees,

isn't it just so wonderful and so wonderful to be alive

thanks imagine..you always been a good friend to me too..i need people like you..regards to your family..

[imagine]

ain't we lucky there is always someone worse of than ourselves

[stevewool]

come on moy it helps to moan, i mean talk, we all have good days and bad days,

[Moy]

come on moy it helps to moan, i mean talk, we all have good days and bad days,

i am steve..tryin but feelin too hard to express here..

[Michael Parnham]

Good advice from Arthur Moy, follow it up!

[Moy]

Good advice from Arthur Moy, follow it up!

ill try

[Ako Si Jamie]

Best to get it off your chest Moy and don't beat yourself up about it, whether it's on here or with a friend offline.

[Moy]

Best to get it off your chest Moy and don't beat yourself up about it, whether it's on here or with a friend offline.

true jamie..xx seems things seems so difficult and no way to solve it that how i feel;(

[Ako Si Jamie]

I've always wondered that. What is a trusted member anyhow?

[raynaputi]

I've always wondered that. What is a trusted member anyhow?

Trusted Members are the ones that the Admin can trust (with the forum, personal issues, etc.). Usually, to get that status, a trusted member would nominate a possible trusted person. But it's still up to the Admin whether we can trust that person enough to gain that status.

[jake]

Trusted Members are the ones that the Admin can trust (with the forum, personal issues, etc.). Usually, to get that status, a trusted member would nominate a possible trusted person. But it's still up to the Admin whether we can trust that person enough to gain that status.

So why did Keith ask for a large amount of chips for any casino in Las Vegas

POKER ......... i havent even kissed her

[raynaputi]

So why did Keith ask for a large amount of chips for any casino in Las Vegas

POKER ......... i havent even kissed her

[gWaPito]

I've always wondered that. What is a trusted member anyhow?

There's your answer Jamie. ..the old pals act comes into play ...I'm wondering now how does one nominate.

If you're the outspoken type but knows where to draw the line, you ain't got a chance. ..although I've noticed it's those types who provide entertaining threads. Can't have it all

Btw. ..in recent times there's been a number of mods and trusted members banned so this system in place isn't so great.

[raynaputi]

There's your answer Jamie. ..the old pals act comes into play ...I'm wondering now how does one nominate.

If you're the outspoken type but knows where to draw the line, you ain't got a chance. ..although I've noticed it's those types who provide entertaining threads. Can't have it all

Btw. ..in recent times there's been a number of mods and trusted members banned so this system in place isn't so great.

Hence we only have very few TRUSTED people now.. So far, the trusted members we have now are the best we can have in the forum.

[gWaPito]

Hence we only have very few TRUSTED people now.. So far, the trusted members we have now are the best we can have in the forum.

I answered my own question Point taken