because i am here in england

[Arthur Little]

...i wish i could share what bothers me...

... y'know, Ros ... there's an old saying:-"A problem shared is a problem halved! And I've found there is very often a great deal of truth in this simple maxim.

So ... if you feel it's something the *Mods can help you with, then don't hesitate to contact one of *us via a Private Message - which WILL, in turn, be treated with the utmost confidentiality.

but thANKS FOR encouraging words

That's OK. Here's some 'rep' to cheer you up meanwhile.

[Moy]

... y'know, Ros ... there's an old saying:-"A problem shared is a problem halved! And I've found there is very often a great deal of truth in this simple maxim.

So ... if you feel it's something the *Mods can help you with, then don't hesitate to contact one of *us via a Private Message - which WILL, in turn, be treated with the utmost confidentiality.



That's OK. Here's some 'rep' to cheer you up meanwhile.

thanks Arthur ..ever since you always cheering me up...things so hard at the moment even to write it all down wipes me out.. shoulder get weary..too..;(

[gWaPito]

... y'know, Ros ... there's an old saying:-"A problem shared is a problem halved! And I've found there is very often a great deal of truth in this simple maxim.

So ... if you feel it's something the *Mods can help you with, then don't hesitate to contact one of *us via a Private Message - which WILL, in turn, be treated with the utmost confidentiality.



That's OK. Here's some 'rep' to cheer you up meanwhile.

Certainly helped me getting it off my chest. I'd couple it with getting legal advice from your local citizens advice bureau. .ie A shoulder on here then the facts from CAB.
As for sharing with Mods and trusted members. .does that mean us mortals aren't worthy. .rubbish. ..she knows who she can trust on here.
In hindsight, I quite possibly blurted out too much. .still, it's done now
The difference here is its only you, not uncle Tom cobbley and all.

Btw. ..I like that. ..''trusted'' members treating stuff on here posted by fellow members with the upmost confidentiality.
Not digging at you Arthur. .far from it.