lots of intresting comments ,
being from a family of 13 you would have thought we could look after our mum, but like some have said before we all need to bring home the food and pay the bills so its hard, mum wanted company and when alone she was fightened,
We all did what we could and to tell the truth some thought others could do more but then again why should they if you cannot,
Mum went into a home to see how she could managed and every day i went to se her all she wanted was to come home , but there was no one to look after her 24 hours a day, its not only the parents that suffer you and your partner and the kids all do, at first its ok then say that after a few months, even though you love them they can be a pain in the .... too,
Most of us from the west are not brought up the way my Ems has been, family first all the time, here its go out into the world and make a fortune and if you can help out but dont worry if you cant sort of thing.
I dont want my kids to look after me and i dont want to be sitting in a chair looking out of the window waiting for my meals either, ok ok i dont mind that if there is a view of alona beach and some pretty ladies passing by in bikinis,