If we are both over 24 years old I take it this can be avoided to save time?

Does it require a bribe or can we speak to the manager of the registrar office as the registrar is insisiting that we both have to be there and do this before applying for the marriage license.

Ive read elsewhere that they can just pretend you attended and give a certificate but dont know if this has to be a bribe or you can officially do it.