May I firstly thank you for the welcome to the site and such a quick reply. It is quite exciting to actually receive such a reply quickly. I have taken a long time to actually get on the site as I got tangled up in confusion on how to log on. My partner Lyresh (Sheryl) has been here for some time. We both feel that the site could potentially be the best help out there in our situation and I must say personally Ive found other ways of trying to get help very dubious. I saw an online report from somebody who once worked for Uk Immigration barristers -. OMG say no more Help -very worrying. I was then asked by a Filipino friend of Sheryls if I thought a site that wanted £500 Uk from him (32,500 pesos) was trustworthy and found it was an actual UK holiday booking company someone had used the profile of and their mobile - IT WAS A SCAM. So I hope that this site grows from strength to strength. Ive made a small £5 donation and will look to support in a small way as time goes by. Thanks for your help very happy and so quick. I like the idea that its the likely hood to return which is important . Do you think this helps if money is shown more in her account than in mine as we save there for our wedding plans. Also the money will stay in Philippines when she comes to UK so its even more secure she will return. many thanks