sending money before you met

[tiger31]

ok hands up who admits to sending money to their future loved one before ya met in person .I am guilty as charged lol when I first hooked up with my misus I was very green to the internet dating game and was not even aware of scammers etc etc .so after 2 months I decided to send 30 quid to her even though she never even asked for money or tried the sob story in any way .It was only when the chinese guy in the western union kiosk said to me do you know that this is a lot of money to a philippino and mentioned the word scam that I really sort of thought what if she is ? anyway she was shocked that I sent her money and thought it was a joke ,she sent her sister to collect the money because she did,nt want to be embarressed in case it was a joke lol .I told the chinese guy well its not a lot to me so if it is then I have,nt lost much .Then I sent a further 50 quid 2 weeks later and then we connected on cam for the first time ,she was very shy at first but soon the chatting started to flow and the rest is history 3 years later we are still blissfully happy

[stevewool]

you are right , its not a lot to us ,most if not all has sent something even me,

[joebloggs]

I'm guilty, but it was a lot more than £80

[tiger31]

I'm guilty, but it was a lot more than £80

LOL yeah my total was a lot more too and i,m still paying

[joebloggs]

LOL yeah my total was a lot more too and i,m still paying

yes just like the slogan, 'A puppy is for life, not just for Xmas'

[tiger31]

yes just like the slogan, 'A puppy is for life, not just for Xmas'

joe she,s a rottweiler not a puppy trust me lol

[Terpe]

joe she,s a rottweiler not a puppy trust me lol

[stevewool]

joe she,s a rottweiler not a puppy trust me lol

[grahamw48]

No, but she collected the 200 grand later.

[raynaputi]

Keith didn't send me money before we met..but he sent me PHP3000 worth of Starbucks GC for my birthday! A lot of savings for me from my every night consumption of Starbucks at work..Hahaha

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[Michael Parnham]

No, but she collected the 200 grand later.

Regarding my ex, same here!

[gWaPito]

No, but she collected the 200 grand later.

Tell me about it Muggins here used to send it by the sack load Gotta laugh

My first adventure cost me a business and a share of my first divorce = £80,000 in total there..at least when she left she took nothing else from me

2nd one is on going ...all in all, like you Graham around the £250000 mark.

I wouldn't of changed a thing had I had my time again.....as a result I got 2 wonderful boys....Something money can't buy

Onwards and upwards as my lovely friends tell me

Cheers
Gwaps xx

[Terpe]

....Onwards and upwards as my lovely friends tell me

That's the only way to go

[andy222]

Guilty sent her money for a laptop to save her going to the internet cafe.

[Arthur Little]

kuripot here, got off lightly in never needing to send ANY money. But then ... ... I consider myself fortunate ... since Myrna earned a good salary as a teacher and all her family were self sufficient.

[han]

My husband sent me 15 pounds to buy some flowers, He said please accept it as a token of friendship I remember when I arrived here in the UK I got bunch of flowers too... sweet man!!!

[Terpe]

My husband sent me 15 pounds to buy some flowers, He said please accept it as a token of friendship I remember when I arrived here in the UK I got bunch of flowers too... sweet man!!!

My wife loves flowers. I often buy some just because I know she'll be so happy for that.

[bhem_bhem]

it wasn't my husband who gave me money,, it was my in laws.. they put 2 grand in my bank. i am gobsmacked as they haven't met me in person that time.

[bigmarco]

it wasn't my husband who gave me money,, it was my in laws.. they put 2 grand in my bank. i am gobsmacked as they haven't met me in person that time.

Sounds like they were eager to get rid of their son

[grahamw48]

Yeah..." here...take him ! "

[bhem_bhem]

They can't believe their son is getting married. They said it's their wedding present..

[grahamw48]

I didn't even tell my parents. I just married her and then brought her home with me...happy bachelor until 40.

[bhem_bhem]

My husband has no plan of telling his parent but i insisted.. he is a private person..

[Arthur Little]

My husband has no plan of telling his parent but i insisted.. he is a private person..

... not that private, surely!

[Slip]

I didn't even tell my parents. I just married her and then brought her home with me...happy bachelor until 40.

Exactly what I plan on doing. Planning to get married at 40 too... I've sort of mentioned her and that I am getting married to my mum. My parents are long divorced and i don't plan on telling my Dad. He's not the easiest of men to talk to and i just can't be bothered to have to go through the lecture.

My husband has no plan of telling his parent but i insisted.. he is a private person..

... not that private, surely!

I am a very private person..... I've only told my Sister and cousin about the marriage. My sister only found out because she's on Facebook and saw the messages between us. My cousin is like my best mate and i tell her most things.
Other than that i value my privacy and don't give away much!

[tiger31]

it wasn't my husband who gave me money,, it was my in laws.. they put 2 grand in my bank. i am gobsmacked as they haven't met me in person that time.

wow 2 k I bet that felt like winning the lotto lol thats a lot of money to a philippino.

[jake]

Was the other way round in our relationship as i was the poor one

My wife lent me 15,000hkd (1,200 pounds) to get my own flat in Hong Kong. At the time i was fond of drinking and spent whatever i earned! After 18 years she is probably regretting that decision

[grahamw48]

Was the other way round in our relationship as i was the poor one

My wife lent me 15,000hkd (1,200 pounds) to get my own flat in Hong Kong. At the time i was fond of drinking and spent whatever i earned! After 18 years she is probably regretting that decision

You gigolo !

[bhem_bhem]

... not that private, surely!

he don't share what he's up to even to his family,, he has just change when he met me.. he still don't like telling people his personal life but he is open to his family now.. no one in his family know i exist until he was due to fly to visit me. if he didn't get drunk few days before his flight, no one will know that he is getting married.

[bhem_bhem]

wow 2 k I bet that felt like winning the lotto lol thats a lot of money to a philippino.

it is normal to me as i am used of handling big amount,, my former boyfriend is loaded, he always carry thousands to squander it to casinos,, i am more surprised that my in laws trusted me that quick to think they haven't met me nor talk to me.