Thanks Terpe
My user name is based on Disney = Dopey..sometimes its a good fit...hehehe

I will look at what you have suggested..thanks

Allow me to elabrate
I am moving to Philippines, work and home
If I am still 'legally married' I am told she is entitled to HALF (50%) of everything I own in the Phils.
Now I understand the Philippines is a big place and i could get 'lost' but I am planning a move business and home to Manila.
If she is entitled to 50% trust me she will find me