Time to take a step back and consider what YOU may be doing, and imagine what life would be like without her (and your baby).
Don't call her a **tch, it's a horrible and disrespectful thing for any man to say to his wife.
Yes, Filipinas do have 'tampos'....quite normal.
It's how you learn to understand and deal with it, and the different mindset of a person from another culture that will decide which direction your relationship is going to take.
Buy her a big bunch of Roses and some chocolates, take her OUT for a nice meal, and thank her for trying to stop you from getting lung cancer in the future.![]()