Sensitive Filipina

[gWaPito]

Thanks for sharing your experience Arthur.

I'm glad things turned out so well for you.

I totally agree Graham but, not meaning to put the cobwash on this but, it's my understanding that marriage is always in a state of flux. ...nowadays it's rarely happy ever after. .In my long experience, It's something what HAS to be worked at every single day...The courtship and the marriage ceremony is the easy bit. ...The following decades can be the hardest.

I must admit. ..marrying someone of your own age and cultural understanding makes life mighty easier. ..life is tough enough.

What was important to me in my 20s 30s and 40s is no longer important to me now ..

[grahamw48]

I totally agree Graham but, not meaning to put the cobwash on this but, it's my understanding that marriage is always in a state of flux. ...nowadays it's rarely happy ever after. .In my long experience, It's something what HAS to be worked at every single day...The courtship and the marriage ceremony is the easy bit. ...The following decades can be the hardest.

I must admit. ..marrying someone of your own age and cultural understanding makes life mighty easier. ..life is tough enough.

What was important to me in my 20s 30s and 40s is no longer important to me now ..

All very true.

These days...just put me down as 'desperate'.