Pinay = Love, respect, loyalty, family values, long haul flights, worries and anxiety on obtaining necessary visa, smiles, "tampo", thinking about the future, heating bills...
Western woman = reebok, Adidas, Kappa, Umbro, Ray-ban, night clubs, pubs, pint of cider, quickie against the wall on a saturday night, another pint of cider, quickie on the bonnet, 2 kids with different fathers... The future is the next pint.
Obviously, there is good and bad in every culture.