When I applied for my mother in law to come over from the Philippines I needed signed avidavids from each of the family members. This is what you will need to get Juvee...signed character references from as many family members as possible with checkable backgrounds for example holding passports ....they need to explain why you will be coming back..in your case your mother will need to explain that..you will then need to get a solicitor to sign and stamp such letters...........This is what I did under the instruction of my solicitor here in the UK.

What does go against you is that you have little money to last the 6 months in the UK...£4000 from your husband and 100,000 peso from yourself barerly adds up to £30 per day living allowance

If its your in laws going to support you, the visit visa application would of been better coming from them ...for it's them who are going to support you.

Like me, they will have to show detailed income and outgoings along with plans of their house to show if they have the space to accommodate all of you...again, they will have to get this drawn up by a surveyor who will have to sign and stamp it....their are rules laid out on how many adults can stay in a certain sized house..they go by how many bedrooms etc

This is my experience of sucessfully applying for a Visit Visa for my mother in law this March.

So sorry to read about your distress Juvee

Lets all hope and pray everything works out for you in the end

Regards
Gwaps

BTW...I suppose I could post letters from my solicitor if that will help...I was going to do this around a year ago to help somebody else who was trying to get their mother here.

I'll have to do it later tonight..no time now

So chin up Andrew and Juvee ..Like Terpe said, you have the forum behind you