boys vs men, despairing over my generation

[bigtombowski]

Usually when it comes to age gaps, i would say that when a guy is older .. i often have a serious of thoughts...

but

the way i am thinking now, and it's a new view of mine ... if a guy is just out of puberty ... probably not marriage material ... especially if the lady is old enough to have a MAN not a BOY!

u want kids? great, get a MAN and a woman together and have your kids ...

not some kid...


to everyone here ... i admire you older men, and i really want to look to you as mentors, especially as you know more about life than i do. I admit, at 25, i still got a lot of growing and learning to do . . . but...it's taken me to the age of 25 to get here.

anyway, this is angry and disappointed message .. . i hope u can make something of my disjointed thoughts,
as im sure u can gather, im writing thru my tears because i have just been hit emotionally by some boy who should be a man, and i really don't want to be like him

i cry because i mourn for this guy and manhood and i pray i can be different
and
i am also angry coz i wanna smash someone's face in now

[fred]

Ouch!
Sounds like someone just had a bad day.
Best stay well clear..Let the dust settle.

[Alan]

Tom - read the good book mate - turn the other cheek.

al.

[fred]

I might be wrong but I doubt that post was from Tom.
Sounds more like Toms girlfriend to me??
Someone please explain??

Anyway talk about confusing...
This should take their mind off of things for an hour or two!




How do 12 men become 13??

[gracia143]

I admire you Tom, you're true to yourself and to your feelings...sometimes I do get to the point that I too would want to smash some people's faces or hit them or beat them up and I do think it's healthy in a way. I call it a bad acid trip though and I think the only antidote here would be your Mar, I think she'll know how to deal with you when you're angry just like a good chemical balancer. I hope you feel better soon Tom, I really do...Keep safe!

[fred]

Hey Tom.. I read your post about 4 times trying to understand the message..Im sorry that I misunderstood..I think the penny has finally dropped.. ME=DUH!!
The message came across as being very "disjointed" but under the circumstances that is understandable..
Hang on in there.
Best wishes..
Fred.

[gracia143]

Hey Tom.. I read your post about 4 times trying to understand the message..Im sorry that I misunderstood..I think the penny has finally dropped.. ME=DUH!!
The message came across as being very "disjointed" but under the circumstances that is understandable..
Hang on in there.
Best wishes..
Fred.

Very well said Fred...it's just not a good day for Tom I think...he'll be alright soon.

[Yossarian]

Tom - you know who I am, we talked on Yahoo the other day... Feel saddened to see a post like this from you, mate, and hope things'll be looking brighter this morning.

illegitimi non carborundum and all that. You're a good bloke, Tom, so stay true

[bigtombowski]

thank you, all you lovely people, thanks Yossarian (i was wondering who u were, now i know ). Thanks everyone for being kind and lovely and not beating me up lol!

I am glad i can share my actual feelings without fear of being forcibly silenced yay

so thanks again everyone
salamat

[bigtombowski]

I might be wrong but I doubt that post was from Tom.
Sounds more like Toms girlfriend to me??
Someone please explain??

Anyway talk about confusing...

gosh fred,
mar is more articulate than i am, even on my best day
lol

i can assure you, it was me, just peeeeeved! lol

[gracia143]

Feeling better now Tom? I hope...

[aromulus]

For a minute or two, I thought you been smoking something illegal....

Between the lines.....

I do share the pain....

If I only could get away with it.....

Repressed feelings are the worst.

[kimmi]

oh tommi what happened?do i miss something here?sorry to hear about it but i am sure everything will be alright..

[gracia143]

Hey Kim! You missed me today too, what happened?

[kimmi]

hi ate gracia,i really had a hard time today..i will send u a pm..

and i dont want to add to his rant..he he he

[gracia143]

It's alright Kim, no problemo. And yeah, Tom is ok now I think.

[kimmi]

well i hope tommi is ok now..

[bigtombowski]

hey grac and Dr kimmi (mommy) lol
thank you for your asking, and yep, i am feeling wonderful now
thank you
oh and i am very glad u can relate dom

tom

[charlwill]

This is only showing immaturity, Tom. Don't entertain this kind of behavior. Charge it to experience.

[bigtombowski]

i know wot u mean, the guy in question was being immature? ok
i agree
and yes char, i will definately put it on my experience

thanks mate

[bigtombowski]

once again, i just want to thank everyone here for being so supportive and helpful and kind through all my silly rantings and ravings, and thanks for also putting a smile on my face! I woke up today and i checked to see if anyone had written anything and i was just so amazed and made so very happy that people cared enough to take the time to make sure i was ok

so for that
i want to say a big salamat to you all and
I love yAs!

tom

[kimmi]

are u sure ure ok now?

[bigtombowski]

yes kimmi mommy thank you and i hope u r really well also today
bless you

[aromulus]

Top o' the morning....

You ok, today...???

[joebloggs]

I might be wrong but I doubt that post was from Tom.
Sounds more like Toms girlfriend to me??
Someone please explain??

Anyway talk about confusing...
This should take their mind off of things for an hour or two!




How do 12 men become 13??

i'm still trying to work out where the guy is hiding !!! maybe the extra guy is a bit like scouser keith, made up from bits and bobs, the first guy look's like he's been scalped after the move...

sorry about the thread fred, but looking at the animated gif is better than work .. looks like its from the 'MAD' magaiznes from the 60,70's..

[fred]

One theory is that 12 pieces of the 12th man is cut off to make a 13th..
If you look at the 13 men,they are actually a little bit shorter so it might be true.. To be honest I still haven`t figured it out.

[bigtombowski]

Top o' the morning....

You ok, today...???

yes dom mate, thank u for asking, i had a wonderful day today and im glad ur feeling really good now that u got ur wife jet with u
tom

[baboyako]

One theory is that 12 pieces of the 12th man is cut off to make a 13th..
If you look at the 13 men,they are actually a little bit shorter so it might be true.. To be honest I still haven`t figured it out.

i think thats it fred. i started counting the number of black shorts, white shirts, etc etc.. i have a headache now

[KeithD]

The hair on the left one becomes feet.....

[ervenescence]

anyway, this is angry and disappointed message .. . i hope u can make something of my disjointed thoughts,
as im sure u can gather, im writing thru my tears because i have just been hit emotionally by some boy who should be a man, and i really don't want to be like him

i cry because i mourn for this guy and manhood and i pray i can be different
and
i am also angry coz i wanna smash someone's face in now

Hey Bigtom, wazzup?!!
Are you having a PMS recently? LoL
Don't you worry mate you are not alone, I sometimes felt that syndrome too.