it seemed a few years back when the parents was getting old , there was a lot of money to be left to the family , but since that has changed and the house has to be sold to pay for care , well the state can look after the parents too, just my thoughts , no offence ment to any nice peopleWhat is sad these days, is that the previous tradition of taking care of your own elderly relatives seems to have been lost. Too many selfish people around.