What is sad these days, is that the previous tradition of taking care of your own elderly relatives seems to have been lost. Too many selfish people around.
it seemed a few years back when the parents was getting old , there was a lot of money to be left to the family , but since that has changed and the house has to be sold to pay for care , well the state can look after the parents too, just my thoughts , no offence ment to any nice people