Losing interest?

[bornatbirth]

how much do u send to ur gf? 5k isnt that £5000? or £500?

have u met each other,how long have u been together or chatting?

i cant really comment on what other people do as its not my place,but if your having doubts you need to sort it out and see what shes says?
working in a internet cafe wont earn her much but how much are u sending her?
have u even met up yet?
how much do u know about her and her family,where did u first meet?

all the money i send my gf soon goes too,any money she does earn and what u send her will never be enough,its called spending it on her family lol

you really have to learn to trust her and what she says but you have to get to the truth someday!!!

[Ady]

Just 5k pesos. I am guilty it is a small amount, but I am not a huge earner. We met in Hong Kong last June, and really I trust her. But absence, distance, time apart has brought some paranoia back to my mind.

[Shifty-Sidney]

Ady - there is a very good saying....
If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you then it is yours! - if not then it never was.
I think its time you sat back and did nothing - this is very hard i know. But if she truly wants you then she will do everything she can. Some of the girls on here go to extreme lengths to chat with their Bf`s.
But i really do feel for you mate - we have been in very similar situations - i am now single again but it hurt like hell to let her go (Tom! dont even mention him/her!)

[andypaul]

Just 5k pesos. I am guilty it is a small amount, but I am not a huge earner. We met in Hong Kong last June, and really I trust her. But absence, distance, time apart has brought some paranoia back to my mind.

Ady 5k is a huuuuuge amount to the avg phill. Put it one way My Wife sends about 30 k plus her mum sends a smaller amount of money back home as she also works abroad. The quite a few kids are being put though school and uni (very nice ones at that), houses are being improved along with the running costs of an avg extended family being met.

I take it you have never been to phill ( hope that doesn't sound rude Ady) as you would reailse a working person would be very happy of a 5k subsidy trust me.

Like others say don't contact her for a few days or a not as much and see if she makes an effort. Thats nothing about the relationship being brit/phill just a good idea to make sure both parties feel the same.