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    "If you suspect things are not quite right, then your instinct is normally spot on..."

    I do not agree. Some people are suspiscious and their girlfriend is as straight as an arrow, while others get cheated on and dont suspect a thing!

    Sure, there are some red flags here, but there are also potential reasonable explanations. For example, Mae is happy to chat to me on the phone. Her cousin will not talk to her boyfriend on the phone. Why? Because she is ashamed of her poor English.

    Its a horrible situation being so many miles apart, any slight change or thoughtless comment gets noticed and then you have a day or more to mull it over and worry!

    I think you do need to be careful, but keep an open mind. Mark's suggestion of playing it cool for a while seems like a good idea. This time next week this will hopefully all be forgotten!

    Ian (another worrier).


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    [QUOTE=IanB;38139]"If you suspect things are not quite right, then your instinct is normally spot on..."

    I do not agree. Some people are suspiscious and their girlfriend is as straight as an arrow, while others get cheated on and dont suspect a thing!

    Ian listen mate, my point is this, I am saying if you have to start saying "Has her interest cooled off" then the mere fact your asking on a public forum if their is a red flag, generally means this girl has behaved in such a way as to cause you to react in this way.

    My experience tells me, and I have seen hundreds of stories like this, have countless freinds who have been in relationships with Filipinas, and

    THEY NEVER ASKED IF THEIR GIRL IS COOLING OFF!

    They Shot out the Phils either got married or brought their girls home !

    3 years and not engaged or married....come on mate !!


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    [QUOTE=ginapeterb;38209]
    Quote Originally Posted by IanB View Post
    "If you suspect things are not quite right, then your instinct is normally spot on..."

    I do not agree. Some people are suspiscious and their girlfriend is as straight as an arrow, while others get cheated on and dont suspect a thing!

    Ian listen mate, my point is this, I am saying if you have to start saying "Has her interest cooled off" then the mere fact your asking on a public forum if their is a red flag, generally means this girl has behaved in such a way as to cause you to react in this way.

    My experience tells me, and I have seen hundreds of stories like this, have countless freinds who have been in relationships with Filipinas, and

    THEY NEVER ASKED IF THEIR GIRL IS COOLING OFF!

    They Shot out the Phils either got married or brought their girls home !

    3 years and not engaged or married....come on mate !!

    totally agree with you peter, when i first chatted with my now wife, after a few weeks she said for me to come and meet her, i told her i would in a couple of months, those months past, and i said oh, couple more months becuase of work etc,, this happened more times, and til finally she said, if i didn't come in 2 months, not to bother at all, and i didn't go. but we finally meet about 6 months later, that was 18 months after we first chatted !!!, so i blame myself for the problems we had after that, but like i said, you can get thru anythnig, if you really want to ...


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