i would probably take the easy option and i find someone who was not married in the first place

ha ha--yeah right. lol

but--seriously--thanks for all the well-meant advice!

they say theres no fool like an old fool--well--i'm 66 in a couple of months---and--unlike some--i like being married, and what man of my age wouldnt like a much younger--very attractive--woman to look after him in his old age.

ive been married 3 times before--1st ended after 14 years in a very acrimonious divorce. undeterred--i married again 3 years later--and had 24 years with a wonderful lady. i was with her in hospital when she died after a long illness 6 years ago.

my 3rd marriage ended after 1 year--through no fault of mine whatsoever.

i can't marry my partner till late 2014--by then we will have "been in a relationship" for 3 years.

maybe someone here can tell me just what i've got to lose?