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    Quote Originally Posted by London_Manila View Post
    I thought scamming was considered as normal behavior in the Phills
    I totally disagree with this... Yes, its happening but i dont think you consider it normal as most of the members here have met and still with their love ones. Unfortunately, some experienced the opposite

    Just be vigilant and use your head too (not just your heart) when you search for a partner.


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    Quote Originally Posted by rani View Post
    I totally disagree with this... Yes, its happening but i dont think you wont consider it normal as most of the members here have met and still with their love ones. Unfortunately, some experienced the opposite

    Just be vigilant and use your head too (not just your heart) when you search for a partner.

    Wishing everyone a happy and prosperous 2014!


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    Quote Originally Posted by rani View Post
    I totally disagree with this... Yes, its happening but i dont think you wont consider it normal as most of the members here have met and still with their love ones. Unfortunately, some experienced the opposite

    Just be vigilant and use your head too (not just your heart) when you search for a partner.

    Wishing everyone a happy and prosperous 2014!
    Well said Rani!


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    This is your wife, it's not on! There's websites devoted to confronting such behaviour on dating sites, and it's not uncommon unfortunately.
    Tempting as it might be to get out there and confront the situation, the advice others have given about "is it safe to" must be considered.

    Really though in a relationship, the biggest thing is trust - once this goes, the relationship at best is never the same again, and at worst is finished. There must be a severe dent to this trust to be posting it on a public forum

    Oh by the way, you said her visa was granted in August, but in a previous post you said it was granted in October?


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    Quote Originally Posted by rani View Post
    I totally disagree with this... Yes, its happening but i dont think you consider it normal as most of the members here have met and still with their love ones. Unfortunately, some experienced the opposite

    Just be vigilant and use your head too (not just your heart) when you search for a partner.
    I think you've taken LMs post the wrong way. You'll find it was all tongue and cheek..having a laugh.

    We don't know the success rates for these dating sites. .at least I don't so I'd say the jury is still out on that one.

    I'd be inclined to take a private detective along with me next time. ..let him do all the leg work while i have the fun. ..it'll be money well spent


    Just joking


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    Quote Originally Posted by tiger31 View Post
    what business was that mark ?
    Crystal clear franchise. ..spent around 3 to 4 million. That was 7 years ago. Evidently they just paid out for a new replacement multi cab.
    The family are doing very well. I got a nark feeding me bits and bobs when news worthy.


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    Quote Originally Posted by gWaPito View Post
    Crystal clear franchise. ..spent around 3 to 4 million. That was 7 years ago. Evidently they just paid out for a new replacement multi cab.
    The family are doing very well. I got a nark feeding me bits and bobs when news worthy.
    wow 3 to 4 million thats a big hit to take mark, don,t know what crystal clear as never heard of it. I will google and take a look. well at least you,re older and wiser now - once bitten and all that. Its just a shame you had to find out the hard way.


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    Quote Originally Posted by rani View Post
    I totally disagree with this... Yes, its happening but i dont think you consider it normal as most of the members here have met and still with their love ones. Unfortunately, some experienced the opposite

    Just be vigilant and use your head too (not just your heart) when you search for a partner.
    That statement was meant as a joke but sadly you thought i was being serious


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    Quote Originally Posted by tiger31 View Post
    wow 3 to 4 million thats a big hit to take mark, don,t know what crystal clear is never heard of it. I will google and take a look .well at least you,re older and wiser now - once bitten and all that. Its just a shame you had to find out the hard way.
    Yep Big hit indeed..that was when 3 and 4 million was worth £30,000 and £40,000

    I thought I could get that back..just like this Ozzy..no chance..not even with my name on the Solerex paperwork

    That relationship didn't cost me as much as the 2nd At least that one only took my money. The present wife wants to take my soul as well.........she may have well fooled the idiots down here..she won't fool our Maker. She's bound to be in for a long spell of wailing and gnashing of teeth


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    Quote Originally Posted by gWaPito View Post
    I think you've taken LMs post the wrong way. You'll find it was all tongue and cheek..having a laugh.

    We don't know the success rates for these dating sites. .at least I don't so I'd say the jury is still out on that one.

    I'd be inclined to take a private detective along wd me next time. ..let him do all the leg work while i have the fun. ..it'll be money well spent


    Just joking
    Its nice to know at least someone gets my humour

    The ones i did meet from a dating site seemed to be the semi pro variety

    Not implying all women on dating sites are working girls.................


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    Quote Originally Posted by London_Manila View Post
    That statement was meant as a joke but sadly you thought i was being serious
    I knew it was LM...I thought the sofa gave it away


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    Quote Originally Posted by tiger31 View Post
    wow 3 to 4 million thats a big hit to take mark, don,t know what crystal clear is never heard of it. I will google and take a look. well at least you,re older and wiser now once bitten and all that,Its just a shame you had to find out the hard way .
    It wasn't enough Brian..I needed 2 big bites to wake me up..I did it all again

    I'm wise now..be it a broken wise man


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    Quote Originally Posted by gWaPito View Post
    It wasn't enough Brian..I needed 2 big bites to wake me up..I did it all again

    I'm wise now..be it a broken wise man
    you have certainly been through the mill mark, but at least you have survived only just. not sure if I was in your shoes that I could have come out of it ok. no wonder some men become woman haters it,s not all about the money but the emotional side that,s the most damaging. I wish we could rewind the clock and do things different to the way we done things wrong in the first place.


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    Quote Originally Posted by London_Manila View Post
    That statement was meant as a joke but sadly you thought i was being serious
    What the heart feels... The mouth speaks


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    Quote Originally Posted by tiger31 View Post
    you have certainly been through the mill mark, but at least you have survived only just. not sure if I was in your shoes that I could have come out of it ok. no wonder some men become woman haters it,s not all about the money but the emotional side that,s the most damaging. I wish we could rewind the clock and do things different to the way we done things wrong in the first place.
    Many guys have taken their own lives for much less...I'm thankful I have my work and a good loving family behind me..I still earn good money ..I still got many (God willing) productive years ahead of me.

    Had I not then..I cld well of ended up like those who decided to call it a day


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    it happens to the best if she,s like this in phil nothing to stop her doing same in uk only worth more money married or not you got evidance she,s done this go get your baby and get marrage finished it can only end in misery unless you condone her doing this if she does this in uk and you know it happens you could be in trouble for not informing police


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    still no reply from the blackcat mmmmm


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    Quote Originally Posted by tiger31 View Post
    still no reply from the blackcat mmmmm
    Probably on a plane Brian!


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    Quote Originally Posted by gWaPito View Post
    Many guys have taken their own lives for much less...I'm thankful I have my work and a good loving family behind me..I still earn good money ..I still got many (God willing) productive years ahead of me.

    Had I not then..I cld well of ended up like those who decided to call it a day
    Wow! Wish I had family and friends behind me Mark!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Michael Parnham View Post
    Wow! Wish I had family and friends behind me Mark!


    BTW. ..family being my daughter and mother. ..The rest are all too busy running their own lives

    There's a subtle difference between you and I Michael. .mine ran off with my babies


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    Quote Originally Posted by hawk View Post
    it happens to the best if she,s like this in phil nothing to stop her doing same in uk only worth more money married or not you got evidance she,s done this go get your baby and get marrage finished it can only end in misery unless you condone her doing this if she does this in uk and you know it happens you could be in trouble for not informing police
    He won't get his child Hawk. ..not unless she gives the baby up willingly. ..fat chance of that. ..you are right about the rest though. .He should cut loose. ..life's tough enough without adding more weight on your shoulders


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    For me I would have to say goodbye. The trust would be broken and if she can be of the opinion that this is ok to do then I'm afraid that's unacceptable in my book.

    Black cat I hope things work out for you.


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    Quote Originally Posted by gWaPito View Post


    BTW. ..family being my daughter and mother. ..The rest are all too busy running their own lives

    There's a subtle difference between you and I Michael. .mine ran off with my babies
    What I mean are my brothers and sister they don't want to know me since I married Maritess and what worries me is, when I'm gone she will have no one to turn to when she needs help dealing with everything, she wouldn't even know who to call. I just hope I'm around long enough to be able to keep teaching her more so that she will be able to cope with life here on her own!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Michael Parnham View Post
    What I mean are my brothers and sister they don't want to know me since I married Maritess and what worries me is, when I'm gone she will have no one to turn to when she needs help dealing with everything, she wouldn't even know who to call. I just hope I'm around long enough to be able to keep teaching her more so that she will be able to cope with life here on her own!
    Michael a nice man I know you are and as long as your happy with your beautiful wife then sod the rest.

    I have learnt today that sometimes blood is not always thicker than water.

    As long as you are both happy then so what, I am sure Maritess will learn a wealth from all the love you have shown her.

    A well deserved rep


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    ...and a rep from me too Michael...same reason.


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    Sorry Michael. .misunderstanding

    Mark's right. .blood isn't always thinker that water. ..not here in the west it isn't.

    Your daily walks should add many years Michael. ..you've got loads of time

    A rep from me as well :'))


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    Quote Originally Posted by Michael Parnham View Post
    What I mean are my brothers and sister they don't want to know me since I married Maritess
    Because of the age difference?

    If that is the case, it's very shallow and somewhat pathetic. You're best off without them Michael.


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    Quote Originally Posted by jamieXXXmaria View Post
    Because of the age difference?

    If that is the case, it's very shallow and somewhat pathetic. You're best off without them Michael.
    My thoughts exactly Jamie


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    Don't believe what your wife said. It is easy to lie.
    Did the Australian Guy send you a letter that he will take your wife to the court? Or was it your wife tells you that?
    before you take actions know both sides of the stories, before you believe your wife, think. Some people can be so nice in your face but opposite when you're not looking. You can't just judge your wife as a good person just because she's not materialistic. Sometimes people are trying to be good to get what they want.

    It should be you wife's will to do such things, even if her parents manipulate her ,she should be thinking about you. What will be your reaction and how would you feel about it.

    Sad to say , I guess your wife wasn't being real to you.

    To those who got scammed I'm sorry but let me tell you this good women still do exist. Not just us Filipina , they are around the world.

    I'm Phil's girlfriend by the way.


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    Maybe blackcat is just stressed.


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