Suspect my wife is engaged in scamming activities

[Michael Parnham]

Thankyou for your comments, Mark, Graham, Marksroomspain and Jamie, much appreciated!

[grahamw48]

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To those who got scammed I'm sorry but let me tell you this good women still do exist. Not just us Filipina , they are around the world.

Correct.

[gWaPito]

Thankyou for your comments, Mark, Graham, Marksroomspain and Jamie, much appreciated!

You're welcome Michael. .I feel guilty as hell for jumping down your throat

Happy new year

[gWaPito]

Don't believe what your wife said. It is easy to lie.
Did the Australian Guy send you a letter that he will take your wife to the court? Or was it your wife tells you that?
before you take actions know both sides of the stories, before you believe your wife, think. Some people can be so nice in your face but opposite when you're not looking. You can't just judge your wife aas a good person just because she's not materialistic. Sometimes people are trying to be good to get what they want.

It should be you wife's will to do such things, even if her parents manipulate her ,she should be thinking about you. What will be your reaction and how would you feel about it.

Sad to say , I guess your wife wasn't being real to you.

To those who got scammed I'm sorry but let me tell you this good women still do exist. Not just us Filipina , they are around the world.

I'm Phil's girlfriend by the way.

Exactly ...For those unfortunates amongst us who have been i'm afraid a lot of the blame lands at our door.
I'm looking forward to a bright Happy future

[marlyn&kenny]

The first and last paragraph is contradictory...so do you actually feel for the scammed victims and help your wife escape with the mess by bringing her here in the UK??

I do not believe your wife is manipulated by her parents , she's an expert and you got evidence she is still on a dating site by sending screenshots with browser tabs links to a dating site.




blackcat if it feels wrong believe me 98% of the time it is.
hope you made the right decision, good luck and take care.

We'll said girl!
And how could he even think of leaving their baby behind? oMG!
Sorry to say but she is one of those Filipino scammers, embarrassing for us pinay but what can we do?

[Steve.r]

I think a response from the OP would help as everyone is speculating.

[grahamw48]

That's what I was thinking Steve.

[London_Manila]

Don't believe what your wife said. It is easy to lie.
Did the Australian Guy send you a letter that he will take your wife to the court? Or was it your wife tells you that?
before you take actions know both sides of the stories, before you believe your wife, think. Some people can be so nice in your face but opposite when you're not looking. You can't just judge your wife aas a good person just because she's not materialistic. Sometimes people are trying to be good to get what they want.

It should be you wife's will to do such things, even if her parents manipulate her ,she should be thinking about you. What will be your reaction and how would you feel about it.

Sad to say , I guess your wife wasn't being real to you.

To those who got scammed I'm sorry but let me tell you this good women still do exist. Not just us Filipina , they are around the world.

I'm Phil's girlfriend by the way.

I Agree

I am sad to say that i have met some deluded fools who don't want to see the truth even when it's so easy for everyone else to see

[gWaPito]

I Agree

I am sad to say that i have met some deluded fools who don't want to see the truth even when it's so easy for everyone else to see

Absolutely LM

[gWaPito]

We'll said girl!
And how could he even think of leaving their baby behind? oMG!
Sorry to say but she is one of those Filipino scammers, embarrassing for us pinay but what can we do?

This unfortunately is the dilemma Blackcat faces..I for one couldn't leave my baby sons behind..no way on earth could I
The mother isnt goin to give him up either...if her parents are happy to let their daughter prostitute herself so they can have a 'nice' home then it doesn't bear thinking about the babe
Blackcat needs to get them both to the UK soon as possible...maybe even pretend go along with their seedy plans..all until they are here..then pull the plug on her

[Ako Si Jamie]

This unfortunately is the dilemma Blackcat faces..I for one couldn't leave my baby sons behind..no way on earth could I
The mother isnt goin to give him up either...if her parents are happy to let their daughter prostitute herself so they can have a 'nice' home then it doesn't bear thinking about the babe
Blackcat needs to get them both to the UK soon as possible...maybe even pretend go along with their seedy plans..all until they are here..then pull the plug on her

If that was me, I'd be finding out whether the baby was mine or not before buying a couple of plane tickets.

[tiger31]

If that was me, I'd be finding out whether the baby was mine or not before buying a couple of plane tickets.

me too

[tiger31]

what is more annoying is the fact that blackcat has never replied once to his original post, so he can,t be that worried if you ask me.

[gWaPito]

We dont know. This is going to be a shock to the system. People react in different ways..all those dreams up in smoke..It does take the wind out of your sails, I can tell you. The baby is key here, without it then it would be a simple case of pick yourself up, dust yourself down and start again

[malditako]

this post is probably a scam as well ...anyway on a serious note why complicate things..people do unacceptable behavior when they are desperate but people do change. If you really love her tell her to stop her wrongdoings and make a fresh start with you. If she still continue then go get your child and leave her

[grahamw48]

Getting the child (IF there is any truth in this thread) will be a major problem.

For one thing it is accepted in the Phils (law?) that the mother has custody of the child up to 7 years of age.

Another good reason for wearing a condom until you are in a position to provide a stable and loving home, living together as a couple, before making babies...IMHO.

[SimonH]

As others have said, I find it very strange that Blackcat hasn't responded to any posts. I expressed my concerns on page one and then Joe confirmed that his IP address was in Hungary, (again I'd be more than happy to be proved wrong) but Blackcat was online and viewing the thread (his little green light was on) so why didn't he say anything then

[gWaPito]

this post is probably a scam as well ...anyway on a serious note why complicate things..people do unacceptable behavior when they are desperate but people do change. If you really love her tell her to stop her wrong doings and make a fresh start with you. If she still continue then go get your child and leave her

You of all people should know that can't be done Even if the mother doesn't give a hoot about the child's wellbeing she'll be all to aware that the half British child will set her up in benefits and free social housing for life if she were to make it over here. Desperate people do do desperate things but, not to Blackcat's partner's extent Once the trust has gone, there's no going back

Whether this thread is a scam or not, I bet you someone's going through it

[gWaPito]

Getting the child [B](IF there is any truth in this thread) will be a major problem.

For one thing it is accepted in the Phils (law?) that the mother has custody of the child up to 7 years of age.

Another good reason for wearing a condom until you are in a position to provide a stable an loving home, living together as a couple, before making babies...IMHO.

This is cyberland..nothing is real. Even mods Joe and Fred have said they are not using their real names. It's all fantasy

Not many of us genuine guys around Graham

[SimonH]

This is cyberland..nothing is real. Even mods Joe and Fred have said they are not using their real names. It's all fantasy

Not many of us genuine guys around Graham

I don't know what you mean.


Lots of love


Valerie

[gWaPito]

Cheers Simon..Thanks for the rep

I've still got to share it around

[Ako Si Jamie]

Not sure why people think Blackcat's story is some kind of scam!

What would he gain from it?

It sounds believable enough to me although I'm miffed as to why he hasn't replied. Perhaps he did take the first plane over.

[grahamw48]

Don't think I'd be in the mood for talking about it.

[mickcant]

Certainly left us all wondering?
Mick.

[gWaPito]

Don't think I'd be in the mood for talking about it.

exactly...we are not all made the same

[Arthur Little]

exactly...we are not all made the same

Aye, well ... ... takes ALL kinds.

[gWaPito]

Aye, well ... ... takes ALL kinds.

[sars_notd_virus]

Sorry to say but she is one of those Filipino scammers, embarrassing for us pinay but what can we do?

Blackcat was online and viewing the thread (his little green light was on) so why didn't he say anything then

Lol I think we scared the Original poster of this thread

[Rory]

At least the person who started this thread has got us all talking about it.

As SimonH spotted with the grammar, then Joe tracking the IP address to Hungry and also Blackcat being online but not replying, i myself do not believe the story and then asking for advise on here!!!!

Advise.... launch her.

[sars_notd_virus]

At least the person who started this thread has got us all talking about it.

As SimonH spotted with the grammar, then Joe tracking the IP address to Hungry and also Blackcat being online but not replying, i myself do not believe the story and then asking for advise on here!!!!

Advise.... launch her.

..good one