When you hit middle age, you'll be able to answer that question yourself
BTW. .My first proper girlfriend. . (Sex and all that) was 32 years old. ..I was 16 at the time.
She was a live in nanny for the local landowner.
Caused a rumpus, I can tell you.
I loved her. ..she dropped me after the summer. .broke my heart.
I saw her in town decades later. ..going by what I saw, I had a lucky escape. I wouldn't of had all my wonderful children either.