A very interesting read, but its down to each other to find what you think is right for yourself, is she a gold digger, was she a man, is she on the game, but hold on there, you reap what you sow, they say,
SO just be careful when that person flutters there eyes at you and you become 16 again,
But remember this works both ways too, yes i shall love you for ever, just to get in their pants, yes come over and be prepared to look after me be my slave and dont expect to have a life other then me, you must have your eyes open these days and thats for both of you.
A marriage of convenience some say, maybe for both of you but remember you only get what you put in yourself and it must last more then your holiday fling too
Any marriage can fail, look at nearly all of us on here and was all our partners from the Philippines too