Split up

[Nick30]

Just so you all know I split up with my girlfriend a few weeks ago :( I didn't want to say anything until now. It feels so sad to know that she just got a new boyfriend. That made me so upset but now I feel we should move on and I'm now ready to date again.

I would like to meet another Filipina but I don't know which is the best genuine dating site to go on. They maybe could be someone on here or one of the members who knows someone either a family member or a friend who's single I would be happy to get to know them.
I'm feeling better about the split now.

[stevewool]

Its always sad news Nick when this happens, but hey just think she was not right for you, and like you say you have moved on,
I am sure there are lots of ladies on here who may push you in the right direction, good luck

[Michael Parnham]

Sorry to hear that Nick, never mind plenty more fish in the sea, good luck for the future!

[grahamw48]

Oh, that's bad news mate.

If it was meant to happen, I guess it would have done.

Lots of lovely ladies out there. Learn from this experience and go gettem boy !

[fred]

Nick.. Is it not possible for you to come over for 3 weeks or so and meet someone in person??

Beats those dating sites by a mile and gets you out of the British weather to boot!!

Just a suggestion.

[Nick30]

Many thanks for all your support and I'm so grateful for it. @fred, yes I could do that I suppose. I don't really want to be near Hundred Islands Alaminos as I will get memories of when me and my ex danced on the Hundred Islands.

Again many thanks

[fred]

Many thanks for all your support and I'm so grateful for it. @fred yes I could do that I suppose. I don't really want to be near Hundred Islands Alaminos as I will get memories of when me and my ex danced on the Hundred Islands.
Again many thanks

Come over to Bohol.. We`ll show you around...No worries!!

[Nick30]

Cheers fred

[Jack1969_uk]

You're in West Sussex why not look into local Filipino associations in Brighton or Horsham?

I know there's many living in that area. I have friends in Horsham and have been to quite a few gatherings there.

Check it out you never know you might strike gold!

[Nick30]

Please give me more info.

[Terpe]

Just so you all know I split up with my girlfriend a few weeks ago :( I didn't want to say anything until now. It feels so sad to know that she just got a new boyfriend. That made me so upset but now I feel we should move on and I'm now ready to date again.

I would like to meet another Filipina but I don't know which is the best genuine dating site to go on. They maybe could be someone on here or one of the members who knows someone either a family member or a friend who's single I would be happy to get to know them.
I'm feeling better about the split now.

So very sorry to learn of this Nick....here's hoping you'll find strength to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and start out anew.
We have many trials and challenges to overcome in our lives. Some believe everything happens for a reason ... resolve to stay positive and keep busy.
Follow the suggestion made by Jack ..... nothing ventured nothing gained Nick.

[stevie c]

Hi nick so sorry for your break but life goes on & it's good you are not feeling sorry for yourself onwards & upwards as they say im sure that you will be dating again very soon

[Arthur Little]

Nick ... as you'll recall, I was the first member to become privy to your sad news. Alas, after much thought I realised ... ... there was little anyone could've said that would "cushion the blow"!

But, I want to say thanks for confiding in me, and also express my feelings of relief that you're moving on with your life.

Good for you! You already know, that "Onwards & Upwards" is your best way forward, Nick!

[RickyR]

Sorry to hear about this awful news. I do hope that you manage to take the plunge and head across to the Philippines, I think you will have a much better chance of meeting your soul mate that way! :-)

[Nick30]

Thanks so much everyone especially to Arthur and Terpe who are so very helpful and been great helps. I'm much better now and me and my ex Urs are still best friends but I feel much ready to move on

[Nick30]

As what Ricky said, I remember when I was in the Philippines back in November 2012 with my mahal I did have a few looks from the girls with a smile and they always call you sir. I remember I was called handsome by one of the young girls in the souvenir store in Alaminos.
Maybe you could hit the jackpot by meeting your mahal easily out there because Asian fancy any man they see.

[Dedworth]

Up & at 'em mate

[HACHE]

Hope you're feeling better now Nick.
Everyone will tel you it takes time and you know that deep down, although I know its hard to believe at the time.
And also, everyone suffers heartache and many relationships don't last forever.
I'm also in terrible turmoil at the moment, but won't hijack this thread, maybe you'll read my thread should I decide to start one to share my eperience. Bit different to yours, but very stressfull..

[Arthur Little]

As what Ricky said, I remember when I was in the Philippines back in November 2012 with my mahal I did have a few looks from the girls with a smile and they always call you sir.

Yes ... , with you one hundred percent, Nick; I also found the young ladies in the Philippines to be friendly, polite and respectful.

They could teach their counterparts in the UK a thing or two about impeccably good manners!

[grahamw48]

Yes, but did they call you handsome Arthur ?

[Nick30]

lol.

[Arthur Little]

Yes, but did they call you handsome Arthur ?

Sadly, ... I cannot tell a lie ... they couldn't ... could they?

[grahamw48]

My girlfriend says I'm handsum...so it MUST be true.

[gWaPito]

Nick.. Is it not possible for you to come over for 3 weeks or so and meet someone in person??

Beats those dating sites by a mile and gets you out of the British weather to boot!!

Just a suggestion.

Hi Nick

Sorry to read of your break up. .it's a bummer to say the least

Although I agree you can't beat going out there and meeting them in the flesh. ...a word in your shell like, if you don't mind, just remember this, all that glitters isn't gold.

Imagine you're with Fred at one of the discos and you've had one or 2 sherberts over the top and you fall for the charms of a local nymph....fast forward a week or 2, you find out she needs an annulment. .got 4 kids in tow and the soul provider of the out of work family of 8...An even bigger bummer don't you think

I know dating sites are not everybody's cup of tea but they do serve a purpose. ..They can clear up any of the potential stumbling blocks. ..as I mentioned above.

Even the guys on the sites go out there eventually. ..surely that's the purpose. .saves wasting valuable time being led down dead ends.

Just my opinion

[grahamw48]

Totally agree Mark..but I thought Nick had already been out there...to the Phils.

[Nick30]

Thanks for the info Mark. Yes I was out there in November 2012.

[gWaPito]

You're welcome Nick. I'm under the impression you were out there with your then lady.

I was just saying no harm in doing some leg work online. .making sure the next potential Ms Nick is at least kosher

I'm actually practicing what I preach

[Nick30]

Which is the best genuine website with the most genuine girls?

[grahamw48]

Facebook ?

[gWaPito]

Which is the best genuine website with the most genuine girls?

Knowing what I know now Nick. .I'd be inclined to get clued up first.

The subject is mentioned on here every now and then, although with a hint of humour.

Do a search. ..For example. ..pitfalls of Internet dating
You will find plenty of folks giving their peneth worth.
I'm usin the filipinocupid. Having many false dawns unfortunately. I haven't given up. Not yet anyway