Committing while head and heart pulled all over the place! Long story...

[Michael Parnham]

She got pregnant at 15. and reluctantly married a few years later after pressure from the father's family.

Wasn't a good relationship at all, and she went off to work in Japan and had a boyfriend of 2 or 3 years there...she overstayed and then came home when found out.

She has always spoken fondly of her Japanese relationship (and her time in japan).

One should never talk or mention past relationships Hache, I think it leaves an imprint in one's mind and it's always hovering around inside you for ever. One of the first things I dealt with in our relationship was never to mention past relationships as it can destroy your whole future together. Hope you can move forward and good luck for the future, keep us posted!

[HACHE]

One should never talk or mention past relationships Hache, I think it leaves an imprint in one's mind and it's always hovering around inside you for ever. One of the first things I dealt with in our relationship was never to mention past relationships as it can destroy your whole future together. Hope you can move forward and good luck for the future, keep us posted!

I agree in the early stages, it's usually a big no no to mention any exes/ previous relationships. It usually means they're thinking of them and looking back (because feelings still there and not moved on) when they should be getting to know their new partner and looking ahead.

We never had long chats about our exes, just a few times they briefly came up in conversation. Only impression I ever got was that it was a happy time in her life that she enjoyed, loving Japan, and had an easy happy relationship. Never for a minute did I think anything more than that....