Originally Posted by
Iani
We all hope in a relationship that we can meet someone we want to spend our lives with. We hope that person is someone we understand and can understand us, who will have many shared values and many individual values of their own - in other words much common ground.
We hope that person will be "right" for us and doesn't have habits we just can't live with. Sorry but if leaving the toilet seat up sends you into a rage, it's no use living with someone who refuses to put it down (To use a rather silly example).
I couldn't live with indecisive people - that is one of my "things" I just can't handle. I like a woman who knows her own mind, will put her opinion, and then we come to a joint decision.
Some people might have love at first sight, at high school, and be together forever. Most of us though go out with many before finding the partners we really fall for and want to settle down with.
Life is too short to spend it trying to bash a square peg into a round hole. Sorry but it's only my opinion, yours seems to be pulling a guilt trick once too often (Something which I really REALLY can't stand).
There's plenty of others out there, why stay with someone you constantly argue with, who constantly grates? It isn't fair on either of you huh
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