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[IanB]

I am 100% certain that Mae is a very modest and careful lady, and as straight as they come.

Pete, though, I think you are being a bit harsh on the ladies who are seen to be money grabbing or greedy. Being poor affects different people in different ways. Having a hunger to move on from poverty, even at someone else's expense gets you criticised if you are a filipino lady, but if you are a self made business man it will get you into the House of Lords. Whether it makes the ladies concerned happy, is, of course, another matter!

Ian

[andypaul]

I am 100% certain that Mae is a very modest and careful lady, and as straight as they come.

Pete, though, I think you are being a bit harsh on the ladies who are seen to be money grabbing or greedy. Being poor affects different people in different ways. Having a hunger to move on from poverty, even at someone else's expense gets you criticised if you are a filipino lady, but if you are a self made business man it will get you into the House of Lords. Whether it makes the ladies concerned happy, is, of course, another matter!

Ian

Ian i have heard these convos and heard from my wife and other phills old and young about the same convos which are insulting and don't need to be said to others what ever your past present or future.

I know what you mean about the house of lord types i hold the same distain for them as i do for those who make the hardworking or frugal feel insecure.

[wynna]

Ian you cant please everybody with the decision that you are going to make but as long as you please or make yourself happy and sure that your mae is something worth fighting for then you go for it, follow your heart. You cant also blame the people that surrounds you to think negative about this cos "when you listen to the news about this kind of relationship, people are more curious to hear about the bad stuff/bad stories that a woman in a certain race did to an englishman or (the kano)" and that worries them. You'll get to hear nice stories about this kind of relationship when you actually meet someone, see and get to know them yourself. All you can do now is just hope for the best and when you get there prove them wrong and for sure they'll get to understand you soon.
No matter who you are with or where you are if the intention of a certain person is bad then that could be your fate cos in this world its either someone can be good or nasty.
Wishing you all the best.