Haha you're making laugh Moy. It's true though. I was a bit daft thinking she might be just lonely.. And the "pa awa" effect... (Ex husband not around for 6 weeks and her with the child, no friends and family around)
After she revealed herself over few dinners, my husband told me that he was not comfortable having her around the house because we no longer have privacy.. And yet there I was thinking she needed company.
Later we knew her mother in law takes care of her child on weekends and the boy goes to nursery..
She later asked me if I've always wanted to marry a westerner. I said no, as it obvious I got 2 children from previous relationship both Filipinos different fathers..mark being my first westerner bf and husband. I later told her if I really wanted to there has always been a chance considering my family belongs to an expat community in Cebu. Besides, like in my previous posts.. Some of the expats in the community gave me the impression of supremacist-who-knows-better-how-to-run-a-country but chose to live in pinas which puts me off. But that all change now..that there are really "English-man" like my husbandpolite et al..but exciting and humorous. Not grumpy and knows how to be diplomatic at all times..but rants sarcastically on guardian's commentary section.