I appreciate your suggestions about marrying here, both of us would really want to, he works in BT and their reliability has a huge impact to his job, if I am not mistaken he is only allowed 25 days off a year, but he cannot use it all in just one occassion, what if he got sick? What if he has something to do for a day? You know, if it is not really about his job, we would really choose to get married here, no questions asked. Also, his loneliness is killing him, I know you have been through the same.

We cannot change plans anymore, we have already started this, if we are going to change our plans again, we will be messed up. hihi but I appreciate your suggestions tho.