Quote Originally Posted by grahamw48 View Post
Ayup...tell us more Mark.
You did ask so I'll tell Sorry Eddie, this is a one off

The past few weeks I've allowed myself to be put under stress. I know when it gets bad, I start getting backache.

Yesterday was a nightmare, as you may know, I have my boys Mondays and Tuesdays. My car had MOT yesterday morning and failed on a brake hose..they wouldnt let me have the car back until it was fixed. Both of their loan cars were out so I had to wait. It was going to mean I was going to be late picking my boys up.

This caused anxiety because I'm unable to contact the wife...she wont use the phone I gave her for this purpose, emergencies. Anyway I sent her an email just in case she didn't show up the following week (proof I tried to get there)...she actually replied Her response was, 'then get a train ..that's if I love them that much' which was rubbish, seeing how I spent thousands getting rightful access.

Where I pick them up is a 145 mile round trip...it's not as if she's around the corner . This is another bug bear..she refuses to tell me where she lives, the boys doctor or their schooling details..My solicitor is in the process drawing up papers to take her back to court

Anyway..Nothing I could do..I thought I'd go out and do some work in the garden..no point dossing round the house feeling the way I was....lo and behold, I put my back out cutting the 2nd shrub

Then the gf starts on saying she's still controlling you blah blah I didnt like that at all ...I mean, we hadn't even met yet she's talking to me like that The omen wasn't good so I went back through hours of our chat.....The penny dropped. The bad back did me a favour..It made me sit down and take stock.

Today I woke up a free and liberated man. The pit in my stomach had gone

BTW Here's a thought



It probably explains why a few drift from one profession to another, never settling on one