
Originally Posted by
Slip
I have made a point of telling my other half that when she comes here to live I will find it hard to support the both of us, but I will look after her the best I can and will provide a roof for her and put food on the table, but can't promise untold riches and life's luxuries. I also said if she wants to get a job here and send money home she can, but has to remember that we should come first, no point in leaving ourselves wanting.
I feel some things have to be said before we get married, just so there are no misunderstandings later.