Quote Originally Posted by Moy View Post
could be too personal but how many here who send regularly in PH for there family...i mean sending cash..??every week..?? and dont complain
i might be one of those daughters who loves there parents so much..that send everything she got even aint nothing left for her...but the thing is its for medication....etc....and you cant ignore it feeling guilty but at times you want to let it out... or ill blow out
Moy,

This is a real tough one but I will put it in a nutshell:

What you have to remember is that when you were in the Phils what happened if you didn' have enough for medical expenses there and with an average wage of about £100 a month if your lucky then once thats gone how did you cope.

I appreciate how difficult it must be for you but like others have said your priority is to yourself and husband first then if you can afford extras then so be it.

Sorry for sounding blunt Moy but thats reality and I wish you well...

Love & Peace...